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Should I be nervous?

MirabellaNYC Posted:

Should I be nervous?

Ahhhhhhhh the saga of the RSVP's.

So far we're at 80 yes and 2 no.
Total invited is 291.

The no's are just the 'and guest' that singles were invited with.

Our RSVP date is Sept 1.
What do you think? How's it looking? Is this normal?
little34 Posted:

Re: Should I be nervous?

It seems like you will get a TON the week of the RSVP date....I have no idea why people wait until the last minute....why they dont make our lives easier and just do it asap....but I would give it some time...people are procrastinators!
gina409 Posted:

Re: Should I be nervous?

it rally depends who all those yes people were...if those were people that were on ur i know def 100 percent comng list then u r cool...if its all people u were like 50/50 on..then ur list wll get big fast

MirabellaNYC Posted:

Re: Should I be nervous?


Posted by gina409

it rally depends who all those yes people were...if those were people that were on ur i know def 100 percent comng list then u r cool...if its all people u were like 50/50 on..then ur list wll get big fast



So far its been like 80% of the 'definite' best friends/family, and 20% of FH's family friends who I can't remember if I've met them or not
lilmartha59 Posted:

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i think its normal...most of the nos come later on

bag19 Posted:

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i was at about 80 yes a week in and we invited 270. i think its normal...they really start to dwindle after the first few days....now its like pulling teeth to get these damn rsvps back. even my own brother just opened his invite last night (actually my mom did it for him ) and our RSVP due date is next wed. it sounds like you're right on track!
cedesnyc Posted:

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You're doing good girl.....you should be fine.

FutureMrsM Posted:

Re: Should I be nervous?


Posted by MirabellaNYC

Ahhhhhhhh the saga of the RSVP's.

So far we're at 80 yes and 2 no.
Total invited is 291.

The no's are just the 'and guest' that singles were invited with.

Our RSVP date is Sept 1.
What do you think? How's it looking? Is this normal?



We're in the same boat... 96 yes and 1 no, the one no was an 'and guest'. We invited 180. I'm thinking the no's will come closer (or after, lol) the RSVP date. I HOPE the no's will come... I really don't want 180! Not to be mean
MirabellaNYC Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsM
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We're in the same boat... 96 yes and 1 no, the one no was an 'and guest'. We invited 180. I'm thinking the no's will come closer (or after, lol) the RSVP date. I HOPE the no's will come... I really don't want 180! Not to be mean



ITA!! LOL
Babydoll21 Posted:

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Your totally fine! The same thing happened to me I got over 100 yes's and only 5 no's in the first few weeks. The no's come later on......
PROBM Posted:

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i am in same boat all the yes reply right away bc they are excited.. the nos come later .

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