should i be pissed???

should i be pissed???

So I'm sitting w thje FILs and we were tallking wedding colors and my FMIL goes to my MOH/ FSIL you will come with me to go look at dresses so YOU can make sure I get the color right.....

Don't you think I should be the one to go with u to pick out your dress to make sure your color is right? I feel like I should say something...am I wrong for being POed?? Ahhhh I just want to who's wedding is it??? Mine or FSIL?????

Re: should i be pissed???

i fell the same way but i have a feeling my fmil isnt going to ask me to come with her either and i decided i am not going to stress it. I went with my mother and that was what was important.

Re: should i be pissed???

maybe she feels comfortable dress shopping with her daughter. I think that my mom would probably do the same. Give her a swatch and just think about how it's one less thing for you to do.

Re: should i be pissed???

I wouldn't be. My fmil went shopping for her dress with her daughter who is one lf my bm's. She lives in pennsylvania and herdaughter went up this week sothey went looking on nye day and when she found a dress my fsil emailed me a pic of the dress and thenthey called me to see if I liked it. So maybe the moh could send u a pic so u don't have to go with them, but if u really want to go I would tell her u would really like to go and see wha she says

Re: should i be pissed???

Dont be mad i went with fmil to 3 stores and she couldnt find a thing so she's on her own now with whats almost 2 months to go

Re: should i be pissed???

Nah... she is probably just more comfortable with her own daughter, maybe she thinks her own daughter will be more honest with her? Or maybe she just doesn't think you would want to go, or that you have time to go?

Re: should i be pissed???

Don't stress it!! They probably go shopping all the time.

Re: should i be pissed???

She might have assumed you are busy with planning. I would just let it go