I just want to whine for a second about this whole thing-I originally wanted to go to Vegas for my BP-but then my girls al backed out ( I have 4 girls in the BP) and I was fine with it. My shower came and went and it was brought to my attention that two of the girls did not contribute at all-not even with helping decorate. So now they are kind of planning my Bach. party which is a day in AC-all I really want to do is hang out with the girls and go to the spa. I am getting nothing from one of these girls who is suppossed to be planning it-she just does nothing but complain about how much his is all costing her...***??? are you kidding me....I am yuor best friend (hahah) and all yuo do is whine about cash when yuo make tons of money??? Can I just cancel my bach party and stay home?
moonlitee
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I'm sorry you are having to go through this but I know exactly how you feel. I feel like my BM and my MOH have done nothing for me...I'm at the point where I don't even know why I have a BP.
I would just make plans to go to a spa and if they don't want to come then screw them. Don't let them ruin this good time in your life.
seta
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SO sorry Tracy! I am involved in my planning...my girlfriends from HS, you may actually know a few are planning a day at the vineyards for me...i am involved in them asking me what i want to do etc...and i think what is making everyone so excited is that it is something they all want to do.
I don't think it is a bad thing to plan your own.... I am having a second which I am totally planning, because my MOH is expecting and has her hands full...that will be more of a low key dinner out in NYC...
If money is a concern for them, there are other things you can do. You can go to ac...do mani's and pedis and then go to dinner/club at night. Or you can do the same in NYC. Why not just send them an email and talk about it!
EDITED to say..do you not want AC and just want spa???? IF so, let me know i did a ton of research on NY SPAs
Good luck!!!! LEt me know if you need any help!
ewickens
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I would recommend telling the girls you don't want to go to AC. You appreciate their trouble in planning it, but it isn't your thing to do. It's your party and you should have fun and if a spa is what you'd like, then do it that way and if all of them don't want to/can't afford, make it for you a close friend, then dine and wine at home.
They should be making you happy, not stressing you out!
tracy2246
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Thank you girls....just wish they would all stop whining ( I should take my own advise)
bournebride
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I completely know how you feel!!!! I have been asking about my BP since we got engaged!!! I really didn't care toomuch about my shower but really wanted my BP in August. In June, my bridal party seemed shocked that I watned to go away in Aug. . They planned my shower in August. Now my MOH (my sis) who lives in NC said she can't go to my BP so I am planning it by myself. I got an email from one of my bridesmaids (my sis-in law) and she can't go either. It totally ***** when all you want is to go relax and have some fun!!!!! Cheer up, and do what you want to do.
