Should I care?

laurendaqt Posted: Jul 19, 2010 06:40 PM

Should I care?

Should I care that my bachlorette party is on friday and half of my bridemaids just cancelled on me today? the deadline for the rsvp was today

I am really trying not to care, as FH says, they all came to my bridal shower, but it just is getting me down. Also, I think being only 2 weeks from my wedding, i think i am a little more sensitive. What would you girls do? Not care and just be happy with the girls who are coming? or be upset about the girls not coming

JennandAnthony Posted: Jul 19, 2010 06:44 PM

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just be happy with the girls who are coming...its the girls who arent coming who are missing out on the fun! .....i wouldnt let it upset me Just enjoy have fun!

canmigs Posted: Jul 19, 2010 07:06 PM

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Posted by JennandAnthony

just be happy with the girls who are coming...its the girls who arent coming who are missing out on the fun! .....i wouldnt let it upset me Just enjoy have fun!

ITA!!!

BriansWifey Posted: Jul 19, 2010 07:14 PM

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I'd be a little annoyed imho. But if they had legit reasons why they couldn't make it, then I'd let it go. Either way, ure gonna have fun so don't let em get u down

laurendaqt Posted: Jul 19, 2010 07:24 PM

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Thanks ladies, I truly appreciate your opinions!

SoontobeGallagher Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:17 PM

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I would be pretty annoyed...unless they has VALID reasons.

Jna2010 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:24 PM

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id be a little pissed but try to make the best of it with thyose are a coming and are there for you!

NovBride10 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:31 PM

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I would be a little upset if they didn;t have good enough reasons for not going. It is the summer and a lot is going on. I know that all of my weekends are basically booked thi summer and maybe that is the case with your friends too. Just have fun with the friends who are going and maybe you could get together with the others another night. I am having two b parties--one is in AC and one closer to home. I know that some of my friends won't be able to make it to AC so I wanted to give them a choice.

laurendaqt Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:47 PM

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Exactly , Im not annoyed about the girls with VALID excuses.
One just had a baby one and a half months ago and her husband works Friday nights and her parents cant babysit.

and the other has a family emergency in Virginia

but the other two said one has school work to do and is overwelmed for last week of class and the other said she has to be upstate early to open a booth for a craftsfair the next day. Gimme a break, I understand the school b/c FH is in lawschool,and had crazy weekends where he stayed in on Friday nights.... but a booth at a festival? gimme a break

JAAMS Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:48 PM

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I'd probably be a little taken back, but do they have legitimate reasons why they can't come? Remember that even though half of them aren't coming, that means half of them are, so focus on that half.

MrsHazel2B Posted: Jul 19, 2010 10:54 PM

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I don't know if you should be upset. They came to the shower and the wedding is 2 weeks away. It could be financial for some...maybe?

MissB Posted: Jul 19, 2010 11:13 PM

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F*k them and there school work! But there is no reason for you to get aggravated! It's your night! Have fun with the girls that are coming because they love you and are ready to celebrate! Everyone will have their turn one day and be on the other side! Enjoy every minute of Friday!!!

elp6421 Posted: Jul 20, 2010 08:16 AM

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I would be annoyed at the ones with out valid reasons. And school work is NOT a valid reason it's totally bs. This is your b-party and it only happens once!!!!!

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Jul 20, 2010 08:24 AM

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Its their loss for those who arent going ... Go and have a GREAT time and focus on those who are there celebrating with you!!!

soontobecruz Posted: Jul 20, 2010 08:29 AM

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Just enjoy it! A lot of my girls can't come to mine and they were at the e-party, shower, etc I can't expect them all to be available to me for everything. IMO the shower is the big one for the girls.

Have fun and let it go.

ACZCAZ10 Posted: Jul 20, 2010 08:30 AM

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aw thats not nice. try not to let it get you down, but i understand your feelings.

KTnChris Posted: Jul 20, 2010 09:19 AM

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its their loss!! you have more important things to think about. two days before mine about 4 people dropped out. i still had a fabulous time.

piggymel Posted: Jul 20, 2010 09:21 AM

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i'd be upset but try and have fun with your friends who are going!

win01 Posted: Jul 20, 2010 09:31 AM

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I would just go and celebrate with those who can. Try not to be annoyed and angry with the ones who aren't coming... I understand to some these parties are IMPORTANT, but to others, they aren't...It sounds like the were there for you and also attended a shower in your honor, so I would let it go... It is summer and some have families and other things they may want to do on a friday night... I am having the opposite problem..I don't want a party like that...I can go out with my friends any time and don't want any 'wild' night..but they are wanting it...Funny, eh? Don't let this ruin your fun time or planning...