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should i get mad? UPDATED

Notwedyet08 Posted:

should i get mad? UPDATED

I noticed on FH FB page that he had uploaded a few pictures from our eparty BBQ-but he entitled the album 'Random Moments!' Everyother album has a title-such and such's b-day party- x-mas eve; Rudy (our dog). Yet he lables the eparty random moments? W T F?


UPDATE: SO-when we were getting ready for bed last night i saw FH was doing something on FB on his BB. So i said 'oh I noticed one of your albums is titled 'Random Moments' and he goes Yea; and i reply from the e-party? So i said jokingly why did you title it random moments? And he responded (like everyone said he would) that was b/c not everyone he's friends w/on FB was invited and how he didn't wan to deal with all the questions as to why they weren't invited/told etc.

So i said yea; i know I figured that was why...LOL! So i left it at and didn't even make a big deal about it.

He was just trying to avoid the mounds of questions for those that didin't get to come. Guess i'm at least happy that it meant a lot to him to at least post the pictures!
JLWSJC Posted:

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If he only uploaded a few, maybe he's waiting to make a whole album?

I dunno i fI would get mad, but I'd probbaly make some sarcastic comment
WeezyGirl2354 Posted:

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I don't think 'mad' would be the correct emotion but i would def. question it. I would enquire about why he titled it as such - could have just been an oversight.

Ask him about it and see what he says - then based on his response you can get mad or not LOL
Notwedyet08 Posted:

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There's about 20-25 pictures uploaded that are all of guests there's one of us cutting the cake together. We didn't really have many pictures so i'm assuming the 25 is all he's got. I'm just annoyed that he would just title it Random Moments like it was just any other party. Someone even commented on one of the pictures about how they never get invited out or something. I want to write back b/c this wasn't a freaking 4th of July random bbq. It was our engagement party!

I just tried to call him but didn't get an answer-i will definetely made a sacrastic comment because i'm not trying to argue over it; but i will let him know i noticed it!
JLWSJC Posted:

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Posted by Notwedyet08

-i will definetely made a sacrastic comment because i'm not trying to argue over it; but i will let him know i noticed it!



Exactly.
allornil Posted:

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hahah oh I'd give him a random moment for sure!!!

Guys are weird though. maybe he wanted to post the pics but didn't want to upset people that weren't invited to your e party.
jwleewedding Posted:

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Posted by JLWSJC


Posted by Notwedyet08

-i will definetely made a sacrastic comment because i'm not trying to argue over it; but i will let him know i noticed it!



Exactly.



I agree. I wouldn't be upset....yet....

It all depends... maybe he was just quickly uploading pictures and didn't have time to type a formal title?

I would definitely make it a point to mention it, then depending on his response, I'll know whether it's 'worth' being mad over...
Notwedyet08 Posted:

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Posted by allornil

hahah oh I'd give him a random moment for sure!!!

Guys are weird though. maybe he wanted to post the pics but didn't want to upset people that weren't invited to your e party.



yea-i can see him not wanting to title it that b/c even though we had a bbq style party we still couldn't invite EVERYONE we knew who would have access to FB. Then you'd have all the people asking why they didn't get invited-similar to what we're dealing w/now with keeping the guest lists low!
allornil Posted:

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Posted by Notwedyet08


Posted by allornil

hahah oh I'd give him a random moment for sure!!!

Guys are weird though. maybe he wanted to post the pics but didn't want to upset people that weren't invited to your e party.



yea-i can see him not wanting to title it that b/c even though we had a bbq style party we still couldn't invite EVERYONE we knew who would have access to FB. Then you'd have all the people asking why they didn't get invited-similar to what we're dealing w/now with keeping the guest lists low!



That's completely my worry if or when we have ours.
Notwedyet08 Posted:

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Posted by allornil


Posted by Notwedyet08


Posted by allornil

hahah oh I'd give him a random moment for sure!!!

Guys are weird though. maybe he wanted to post the pics but didn't want to upset people that weren't invited to your e party.



yea-i can see him not wanting to title it that b/c even though we had a bbq style party we still couldn't invite EVERYONE we knew who would have access to FB. Then you'd have all the people asking why they didn't get invited-similar to what we're dealing w/now with keeping the guest lists low!



That's completely my worry if or when we have ours.



ok ladies thanks! You helped simmer the boling water in the tea pot! Cause i was starting to get all upset! LOL!

But i'll sum it up to not wanting to open the flood gates of people who we weren't able to invite. Because now that i think back; we have encountered a few people who were like oh why did you let me know yada yada yada. And then thy say make sure you let me know when the wedding is!! And we just coulnd't invite everyone! cause we know we can't invite everyone to the actual wedding! At least he uploaded the pictures that he did right LOL!
Jessc4985 Posted:

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IDK if I would be mad, however nest time he tried to have sex with me I would be like, is this filed under random moments as well!!! haha

Notwedyet08 Posted:

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Posted by Jessc4985

IDK if I would be mad, however nest time he tried to have sex with me I would be like, is this filed under random moments as well!!! haha



LOL!!!!!
JuneBride14 Posted:

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Posted by JLWSJC


Posted by Notwedyet08

-i will definetely made a sacrastic comment because i'm not trying to argue over it; but i will let him know i noticed it!



Exactly.



I agree
JuneBride14 Posted:

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Posted by Jessc4985

IDK if I would be mad, however nest time he tried to have sex with me I would be like, is this filed under random moments as well!!! haha



haha
angelscri Posted:

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My FH does things like that. I had to stop letting it 'P' me off. lol

LauraluvsSean Posted:

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wow that would annoy me too! im so glad FH is anti-facebook!
LoveyDovey Posted:

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hes probably just being a boy!!!!

i wouldn't sweat it!

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