Should I pay for my bm's?

esb980 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 11:36 AM

Should I pay for my bm's?

Tomorrow I am going bm dress shopping w/ all of my bm's and moh. After, we are all going out to dinner and drinks, my question is should I pay for dinner?

kellwolfe Posted: Sep 23, 2005 11:37 AM

Re: Should I pay for my bm's?

I would see what happens .....if you have to wait at the bar for a table - i would Def. buy the 1st round of drinks ......and thank everyone .....

jilmadison Posted: Sep 23, 2005 11:42 AM

Re: Should I pay for my bm's?

Posted by kellwolfe

I would see what happens .....if you have to wait at the bar for a table - i would Def. buy the 1st round of drinks ......and thank everyone .....

I agree, I dont think you need to pay for everything, just buy a round and say something nice about you appreciating their being in your wedding

Beth1210 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 11:58 AM

Re: Should I pay for my bm's?

how many are there?

I probably would pay

esb980 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 12:03 PM

Re: Should I pay for my bm's?

3 bm's and 1moh and me.... so 5... what could tht cost? $250?

chikita315 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 12:06 PM

Re: Should I pay for my bm's?

Posted by Beth1210

how many are there?

I probably would pay

I would probably pay as well. Did you invite them to dinner? If you invited them, then you should offer to pay.

stephanief Posted: Sep 23, 2005 12:06 PM

Re: Should I pay for my bm's?

I do not think it is necessary to pay. Buy them a drink like the other girls said and save your money. Unless you have alot of it, $250 seems like alot to spend.

Maybe I am just cheap

chikita315 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 12:07 PM

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Posted by esb980

3 bm's and 1moh and me.... so 5... what could tht cost? $250?

Depends on where you are going.

leese Posted: Sep 23, 2005 12:11 PM

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I am hosting a luncheon at my house, so I'm of course paying.

I think it's nice to pay for the meal if you have the money. If not, perhaps arrange for a bottle of champagne or something special....

july06bride Posted: Sep 23, 2005 12:13 PM

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we took my girls out for lunch after dress shopping and i was planning on buying them lunch/dinner and drinks...BUT my mother got to the bill before me and paid.. I think it would be a nice gesture if you paid, btu i dotn think it is necessary

concon361 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 12:13 PM

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I agree pay for the first round of drinks...but I wouldn't foot the whole bill, they know that you are saving for the wedding, so it shouldn't be a big deal

cindyandkevin Posted: Sep 23, 2005 12:38 PM

Re: Should I pay for my bm's?

I would pay for drinks like some of the girls said, then make a toast. I wouldn't be able to afford to pay for everything. $250 seems like a lot to spend on 5 people, what do you plan on having?? I'm doing what Leese is doing and having them over for lunch instead of taking them out. HTH!!