So if you havent seen my previous posts, there was some bachelorette party planning drama and one of my friends all of a sudden dropped off the face of the earth on friday, the time that she was supposed to book her cruise reservation.
so i paid for it, like an idiot- but whatever, i am trying to see if my other friend can replace her.
so she FINALLY texts my MOH today. She gave her some sob story about how she's working 24/7 and she wont have any money to pay for the trip and she doesnt want to stress hersself out (HER?!?!? what about me?!)
can i uninvite her from my wedding?
kris_gets_hitched
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Is she a BM?
If she's just a guest, and your invites haven't gone out yet, then you can just not send her one.
regy_k
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I dont think u can uninvite, sorry just b/c she's being a flake doesnt mean u should be too
is she in ur BP?
interesting that she txted ur MOH and not u..... u only called her and left million msgs
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So if you havent seen my previous posts, there was some bachelorette party planning drama and one of my friends all of a sudden dropped off the face of the earth on friday, the time that she was supposed to book her cruise reservation.
so i paid for it, like an idiot- but whatever, i am trying to see if my other friend can replace her.
so she FINALLY texts my MOH today. She gave her some sob story about how she's working 24/7 and she wont have any money to pay for the trip and she doesnt want to stress hersself out (HER?!?!? what about me?!)
can i uninvite her from my wedding?
eta she's not a BM and my invites have not gone out yet
LoveyDovey
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i said the same thing in a post earlier, that i am going to say again...
I feel that you should only surround yourself with loving, supportive people on your wedding day...especially those in your bridal party- these are people that you will remember forever and ever when you are old and gray- if they can't support you with simple things BEFORE the wedding...how can you expect them to support you during and after?
I would seriously re-analyze your friendship- and if you feel that strongly then 'uninvite her' but remember the power that decision holds- if you uninvite don't expect to have a friendship with her ever again
Her actions would def upset me!
MrsHazel2B
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can she pay you back in installments? I know you're annyoed with her but do you really not want her to come?
FallBride2010
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Is it possible that she is really having financial problems and was too embarrased to tell you directly?
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Posted by FallBride2010
Is it possible that she is really having financial problems and was too embarrased to tell you directly?
i totally understand that. but there comes a point where you just have to come out and tell me. we have been talking about this for over a month. i sent her the confirmation on wednesday, she saw it all and even commented on it. then she disappears. thats not OK.
lovey dovey thanks for your advice. i dont want to be around her because just thinking of her gives me agida.
