Shower '09

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Posted by Kristina2009

Girls lets just move on and post about some fun wedding things! We can organize a new shower - it will all be fine!

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Maybe someone non-partial should plan the shower! I think we can still do this and have a great time!!!

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Posted by Cacarina

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Posted by Kristina2009

Girls lets just move on and post about some fun wedding things! We can organize a new shower - it will all be fine!

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Maybe someone non-partial should plan the shower! I think we can still do this and have a great time!!!

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I agree. I hope someone who is neutral can plan this.

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Posted by fabulousmady

the shower was for ALL the 09 boards. the dates where not changed intentionally. all the date changes were made HERE for everyone to post if they were available or not.

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It's fine for you to say that now that the board is deleted but I think there is some proof that this is not true...so would you guys please stop lying already.

Michelle took on a lot with the shower - it is a ton of work and she did a lot despite all this drama.

Maybe one or two uninvolved girls can step up and help out too and people will be ok!

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Posted by MaureenM618

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Posted by fabulousmady

the shower was for ALL the 09 boards. the dates where not changed intentionally. all the date changes were made HERE for everyone to post if they were available or not.

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It's fine for you to say that now that the board is deleted but I think there is some proof that this is not true...so would you guys please stop lying already.

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honestly how would we be able to know who would come to the new date and not? It wasnt intentional

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Posted by fabulousmady

the shower was for ALL the 09 boards. the dates where not changed intentionally. all the date changes were made HERE for everyone to post if they were available or not.

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thats FALSE, from what I have heard and what i have read the pictures should be of 'DFZ' and who cares what committees other wants to be on, 'DFZ' can be on any committee they want to. Also I heard that they were happy the date was changed so 'certain'people could not attend.
I wish you guys didn't delete the DFZ board

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Posted by Ann 52409

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Posted by fabulousmady

the shower was for ALL the 09 boards. the dates where not changed intentionally. all the date changes were made HERE for everyone to post if they were available or not.

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thats FALSE, from what I have heard and what i have read the pictures should be of 'DFZ' and who cares what committees other wants to be on, 'DFZ' can be on any committee they want to. Also I heard that they were happy the date was changed so 'certain'people could not attend.
I wish you guys didn't delete the DFZ board

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i wish the DFZ board wouldnt have gotten deleted either so everyone could read for themselves and make their own opinions.
If i remember correctly what u are referring to was about frustrations with the shower planning. a lot of people HERE were making the committee thing an issue. they were FM'ing girls about why they are in charge or why someone was chosen and not them etc. i believe if u look at the list of who is doing what committees it is not made up entirely of DFZ girls. everyone posted HERE wat committee they wanted to be on and it was chosen that way. the secret bride committee was the one in particular that was causing a big commotion. i dont even remembered who ended up on that one.

We are not canceling the shower! I think we should continue to plan and after the weekend, once people calm down and things get back to normal, send out a new email and promote true drama-free-ness and start the RSVP count again.

It's 3 months away, let's give it time before we all up and leave!

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Posted by fabulousmady

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Posted by Ann 52409

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Posted by fabulousmady

the shower was for ALL the 09 boards. the dates where not changed intentionally. all the date changes were made HERE for everyone to post if they were available or not.

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thats FALSE, from what I have heard and what i have read the pictures should be of 'DFZ' and who cares what committees other wants to be on, 'DFZ' can be on any committee they want to. Also I heard that they were happy the date was changed so 'certain'people could not attend.
I wish you guys didn't delete the DFZ board

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i wish the DFZ board wouldnt have gotten deleted either so everyone could read for themselves and make their own opinions.
If i remember correctly what u are referring to was about frustrations with the shower planning. a lot of people HERE were making the committee thing an issue. they were FM'ing girls about why they are in charge or why someone was chosen and not them etc. i believe if u look at the list of who is doing what committees it is not made up entirely of DFZ girls. everyone posted HERE wat committee they wanted to be on and it was chosen that way. the secret bride committee was the one in particular that was causing a big commotion. i dont even remembered who ended up on that one.

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yes but, if you remember that post which is one of a couple that made the shower seem to be for DFZ, the secret bride is a issue and two DFZ girls in charge because 'dfz girls can be a part of whatever committee they want.
Most of the girls that read through all the pages on that site can understand what this shower was about thats why I wish the site was open so nobody can hide behind what they said

The drama about the shower was about 1-2 before we started the board. About 6 of us went to dinner together then the next day there was a post about us having a secret GTg when it was 6 girls who talk on here having dinner.

The secret bride thing did get out of hand and the whole shower in the beginning got out of hand when there was posts about not everyone being able to help when it was clearly stated that everyone could help.

Mich put in so much time into this and I am sad that it came to this.

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Posted by MRSin2009

The drama about the shower was about 1-2 before we started the board. About 6 of us went to dinner together then the next day there was a post about us having a secret GTg when it was 6 girls who talk on here having dinner.

The secret bride thing did get out of hand and the whole shower in the beginning got out of hand when there was posts about not everyone being able to help when it was clearly stated that everyone could help.

Mich put in so much time into this and I am sad that it came to this.

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wanst clearly stated that everyone could help...and im sure you are sad but realize why it came to this.