My girls are planning the shower and FH and I would like to do a Jack and Jill but the way it sounds the girls want it to be all girls. who decides this and do I have a say>???
well i think the 'proper' thing is to leave it to them. i have no say in it. its mainly my mom (im guessing-its all a big secret) i would at least mention it to your girls and maybe they can work something out.
Well, it's your wedding, but it depends on how involved you want to be with your shower. Some brides don't want to know anything, some want to know the date and some want to know everything!! If you have your heart set on a jack and jill shower, then let it be known that is what you want and leave the planning of it to them.
maybe you can do a Jack n Jill after-shower party! That way the ugys can help w/ moving all the presents.
