soo my mom already feels aweful that shes clueless about everything so ive been plannign my own shower.. and shes footing the bill. but we've been plannign stuff together. she gives me her opuinion on everythign (even when i dont ask for it lolol)
welll.. the rh is including a cake for my shower..but i thought it would be fun if i made a shower cake as well.. for fun. out of fondant. like a 2 or 3-tiered hot pink cake with silver or something a lil crazy.
well my coworkers said its pathetic. and i shoudlnt do it. they said it looks liek im desperate that i made my own cake?? kinda mean,right? lol but honestly..is it like a loser-type shyt to be doing it? or should i say EFF U..and make 1 anyway lol
kris_gets_hitched
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I say do it! First off, you took those classes for a reason. Secondly, umm...it's MORE CAKE. Who doesn't like that?!
mrsdraskin2009
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Ohh go ahead and make one! Who cares! I'm sure you'll make it look hott!
CristinanBen2010
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I would do it if I could! It does not look pathetic at all. Go for it!
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i duno they made me feel like a loser
MikesBride2B
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Wow, your coworkers are azzzzzzzzholes!!!! I think it'd be awesome if you made your own cake! If I went to a shower where the bride made the cake and it looked good I'd be super impressed.
Make your cake and dont invite those snotty bishes!
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i duno they made me feel like a loser
Eff 'em! My aunt used to make amazing cakes. She'd always make cakes for her own celebrations and we always looked forward to seeing what she'd create. And then we'd look forward to eating it! Moooooooo!
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i would never do it but thats because i cant decorate a cake for sh*t.
u took the classes.. so fcuk it..i say go for it
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who cares if you made it? if it looks nice people are gonna be like 'oh what a great cake. whered you get it from?' and then you tell them you made it and they are gonna gush over it
go for it
p.s. i ordered those invisible ink pens you got and i got them today..they are so AWESOME!!
Jna2010
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do it!!! judging from the last one you made, im sure its gonna look hot
eta:as always, theyre just jeal
TheFutureMrsPM
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do it!!!!!! F not doing it bc of debbie downer - it is fine. you took the classes, show off your skills!
JC297
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I would just make sure its okay with the venue. Some places require that you have a receipt for insurance purposes
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I def wouldnt listen to ur co-workers, and make the cake!! If I was going to a shower and found out the bride made the cake I would be jealous that they are capable of designing such a beautiful cake. I would really be impressed. Thats just me lol
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put those cake decorating classes on display and make you cake.....f your coworkers and their opinions!
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I would totally make myself a cake if I knew how...Go for it!!!!
grkbarbie
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they arent jealous.. 1 of them makes AMAZZING cakes. stuff i have never seen b4.. so def not that.
i duno.. it was hurtful..but thats hwo we are. we keep it real..
but ugh i dunoo
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Who cares what they say? Besides if you care that much, make the cake and don't tell them who made it......until AFTER they eat it
ETA: I have a better idea.
Ask her if SHE'S going to make or buy you a cake......if not, tell her to MIND HER F'ING BUSINESS!
Jna2010
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listen its not like you dont have 1 professional cake, this is just a little extra you want to do
einai kaiki mori i had to do it
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wow... tell her to mind her bizzz...
my sister and my aunt will make all the desserts for my shower... but if i baked like them i would do it myself too!
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I would do it if it doesn't stress you out. Besides it could be your way of saying thanks to the guests for coming.