Shower drama...advice needed

queenofhaerts Posted: May 31, 2012 11:11 AM

Shower drama...advice needed

This is a tough one... apparently all those involved in planning my shower: my mom, my two FSILs, my two BMs, and my MOH can not get along. No one wants to drag me into it because it is supposed to be a surprise, but people are starting to reach out because they are frustrated with the way others are acting.

Drama, drama, drama!

Anyone have any suggestions on what I should do?

TIA Ladies!

futuremorasse Posted: May 31, 2012 11:28 AM

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This happened to me for my Bachelorette Party and I eventually got dragged into it and it wasn't a surprise. It was beyond frustrating. I say let them sort it out and stay out of it. If they bring it up tell them if they love you enough they will learn to deal with the other people close to you!

Ker1398 Posted: May 31, 2012 01:03 PM

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I say try to stay out of it as best as you can. Let them work it out and hopefully you will be able to enjoy your day. I think it is rude that they are draggin you in.

pixietina Posted: May 31, 2012 03:04 PM

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Don't get involved. They need to learn to put their differences aside for you.

queenofhaerts Posted: May 31, 2012 03:32 PM

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Thanks ladies. Much appreciated!!

MrsHeffToBe Posted: May 31, 2012 03:43 PM

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Posted by pixietina

Don't get involved. They need to learn to put their differences aside for you.

This!! There was also drama behind the scenes with my shower but my girls did a great job of keeping it from me because I had no idea. At the end of the day, the shower came out lovely!

cdh2672 Posted: May 31, 2012 04:29 PM

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Posted by pixietina

Don't get involved. They need to learn to put their differences aside for you.

Totally agree! This is why I only had a MOH I'm sure it will work out, and don't let it get to you. These are grown women!

Kristy143 Posted: May 31, 2012 11:23 PM

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Do not get involved they can deal with this themselves for a lil longer. It's about YOU not abou them!

Skinewyork Posted: Jun 01, 2012 02:19 PM

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I would send a 'unprompted' email to everyone, telling them that you had some thoughts about what would make you happy at your shower, and then listing what they are. It might help them if they are debating over what you'd like best, or at least minimize the amount of things they need to think about. Things like you want this or that theme, or you want a buffet vs sit down meal, or you want it to be 100 people vs 30.