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shower gift question

Ronkonkomonga Posted:

shower gift question

how much is appropriate to spend on a shower gift - I'm in the wedding party, but I'm out of town - and can't attend the shower.

KRyan1026 Posted:

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I'm in the same situation. It is not one of my usual groups of girls that I grew up w/ (we usually do a group gift). I called the rest of her BP and they never got back to me. I guess I'm going to spend b/t $100 - $150 b/c I usually spend that. What do you think??

jesslangen Posted:

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If you are part of the wedding I would see if the BP is doing something as a whole first.

If not, probably at least $150. IMO Only because I usually spend a minimum of $100 on family or close friend. I think if you are in the BP you should spend more.
Ronkonkomonga Posted:

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good point - I'll shoot for 125.

she is in my bp too - so I think it will all even out in the end
LO13LO13 Posted:

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i just had my best friends shower which i am part of the bp, i spent $200

slwh2005 Posted:

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Posted by Ronkonkomonga

good point - I'll shoot for 125.

she is in my bp too - so I think it will all even out in the end



That sounds right to me.
lrs2005 Posted:

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How much on average do you give in total for a shower/wedding present if you are not in the bridal party?

csorisi Posted:

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Posted by LO13LO13

i just had my best friends shower which i am part of the bp, i spent $200



I spent about the same probably $220 with the wishing well gift and I flew to florida

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