Shower guest list questions

My MOH wants a guest list from me by this Friday. Do I include relatives of my fiance that I haven't met? Also, my fiance is friendly with a few couples who I know but not well. Do I add these women to the list? He is friendly with the women as much as the men, it's not just that they are the wives of his friends. 1 or 2 asked him where we are registered. Any suggestions?
Fran

Thanks. I've decided not to include women I don't know well...other than some of his family - I will leave that up to my fiance's sister to decide. My MOH also started telling me about my mother's 'control issues' regarding this...hopefully it's the last I'll hear of it. Actually, my mother has been terrific about everything so far. She's so thrilled that her only daughter is getting married.

Kel,

That is really nice that so many people are coming a good distance to be there. We may be having a bunch from overseas too, Ireland. I was surprised when my FSIL told of several relatives that said they will be attending. You're right, sometimes people can really surprise you or disappoint you. I guess the best thing is to focus on the positives. Did you ever remember someone who was really rude to you but forget the person that went out of their way to be kind? I try to step back and appreciate the kind people rather than seeth at the others...sometimes easier said than done but worth it in the long run..

I don't remember all of a sudden it went out of my head but I think she is the only lady photographer.