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Shower guests--invite who RSVP'd 'no' to wedding?

BoxOfRocks Posted:

Shower guests--invite who RSVP'd 'no' to wedding?

My MOH is planning a shower to me and I need to get a guest list over to her. Should I invite people who already RSVP'd 'no' to the wedding? Not sure if it matters, but I attended their weddings and showers a few years ago. I'm trying to balance looking inclusive by asking them vs. not looking greedy, since the purpose of a shower is to get gifts. TIA.

angelover02740 Posted:

Re: Shower guests--invite who RSVP'd 'no' to wedding?

Its really up to you, but Im not sure If I would. Some people dont invite the people that didnt make it to the shower to the wedding, but I did

cindyandkevin Posted:

Re: Shower guests--invite who RSVP'd 'no' to wedding?

Would you have invited them to the shower if they were coming to the wedding? If yes, then you should invite them now anyway. They might want to go to the wedding but aren't able to for some reason, if they're invited to the shower it'll give them another opportunity to see you and wish you well, celebrate your joy, etc.

Fireworks Bride Posted:

Re: Shower guests--invite who RSVP'd 'no' to wedding?

Yes- I had people come to my shower that couldn't come to the wedding. I thought is was nice to make the extra effort.

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