Shower invites

I'm not sure who should be invited to the shower. I didn't give names of any of my fiancés friends wives. Is that ok to do? Not sure how this all works. Help!

Shower invites - Long Island Weddings

I just invited family & friends(which came to 90 people). I did not invite any of FHs coworkers wives or my fathers coworkers wives. I also didn't invite any of FHs families cousins that I didn't have a close relationship with. If I invited every woman it would have been like 150 people!

Shower invites - Long Island Weddings

There no 'rules' for who to invite and not invite... If you are close with your FH's coworkers, then invite them! If you're not, then don't feel like you should have to invite them... invite who you want there :)

I invited my FH's coworker's wives because we hangout alot and I'm very close with them. Also invited aunts, cousins, friends, and my grandmother's sisters because she wanted them there lol... we had about 90 people on our list (lots of cousins and aunts- my FMIL is one of 9 children and my mom and dad are each one of 5)

Shower invites - Long Island Weddings

Ok. That's what I was thinking because without them, there are already 75 people on the list. Thanks.

Shower invites - Long Island Weddings

Mine is a surprise but my moh asked for a list of who she wouldn't know than my mother in law gave her a list as well as my mom so I think its around 60 ish