Shower Issue- What should I do?

jessamyn78 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:26 PM

Shower Issue- What should I do?

So, I already know about my shower. I picked the date with my mom. I also told her a few themes I would like. I started up an email with contact info for all of my BM's and for FH's sisters.

My issue is that FH told me that he wasn't supposed to tell me, but my mom emailed everyone a list of things that need to be done for the shower. The problem is that no one responded yet except for FH's sisters.

My mom always wants an immediate response. I wish she would call the girls because they don't check email all that often. 2 have little babies, 1 works like crazy and the other is just never on the computer.

So, do I call them and say my mom is trying to contact you?
Do I email them my mom's phone number?
Do I tell my mom to give them a couple days?
Or, do I stay out of it because FH wasn't supposed to tell me in the first place???

angl2001 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:31 PM

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can FH talk to them?? this way noone knows he told you?

jessamyn78 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:33 PM

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Posted by angl2001

can FH talk to them?? this way noone knows he told you?

Maybe. I just don't want them to be annoyed about it.

jessamyn78 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:34 PM

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Maybe FH can talk to my mom.

bella1028 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:36 PM

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maybe mention it to FH...but I probably would not call them and get involved if I were you...maybe at a later point in time if they do not respond...how long has it been since your mother contacted them?

jessamyn78 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:38 PM

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Posted by bella1028

maybe mention it to FH...but I probably would not call them and get involved if I were you...maybe at a later point in time if they do not respond...how long has it been since your mother contacted them?

Not sure, I assume it was this weekend.

jessamyn78 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:46 PM

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So I just talked to my cousin who also mentioned that my mom emailed her. I just asked her to respond whenever my mom emails so they stay in touch.

bella1028 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:47 PM

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Posted by jessamyn78

So I just talked to my cousin who also mentioned that my mom emailed her. I just asked her to respond whenever my mom emails so they stay in touch.

good, so maybe within the next few days they will all get in touch with your mom

jessamyn78 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 09:48 PM

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Posted by bella1028

Posted by jessamyn78

So I just talked to my cousin who also mentioned that my mom emailed her. I just asked her to respond whenever my mom emails so they stay in touch.

good, so maybe within the next few days they will all get in touch with your mom

I hope so. My mom is right, I am too controlling and now I feel like I have to call everyone and manipulate the conversation until it comes around to my shower!

SparkyandAng Posted: Jan 13, 2008 10:18 PM

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IMO...you'll be much happier just staying out of it. I started to get involved in mine b/c I choose not to be surprised, but my cousin (a BM) has a point and told me that 'just b/c you know about the shower, you don't need to know all the details and drama that goes with it'. I tend to agree.

good luck!

NC1011 Posted: Jan 13, 2008 10:19 PM

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I vote to stay out of it. Your much better off letting someone else deal with the situation since it's your shower and you dont wanna be stressed out for it.
HTH