Shower not such a surprise!!! Venting

Everyone wanted to keep my shower a big surprise but yet no one is doing a good job of it…
My mother can’t keep her mouth shut and tells me all the drama going on with my bridal party.. She also slipped twice which lead me to know the month of the shower and what my FH is going to tell me to get me there…
My FH left the directions cards out (now I know where it is) which he was suppose to bring to my mother, the reason being the MOH didn’t want me at the house when she drop off the stuff, but it would have been better because my dumb FH wouldn’t have left them out…

So in conclusion I know the Month, Place and how they are getting me to the shower.. WOW what I big surprise this will be! Oh and I know how petty my BM’s are being about money, should be lots of fun.

Try not to stress over it. So you know when and where it is. Be happy that you have people that love you so much that they are planning this for you. I'm sure you will have a great time.

Sorry to hear you are disappointed!

I originally wanted mine to be a surprise, I have never had any surprises

but, I went to my cousins shower in April, she knew about it, was there to greet the guests and had a GREAT, RELAXED time, and did her hair trial that day, so her hair was all done up too@!

My Aunt called me and asked if she could host my shower, etc...I am honored, and thrilled!! I know my BP is also happy, it means they can relax a little bit...as far as the paslnning..but they will be there to help pas sout food, clean up, etc...


My view is that I know I will have a shower no matter what, and to try to foll me into something, and keep quiet would be hard for them I am sure...

but, none of the BP knows I know...they will not till invites go out!