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Shower question

snowcat Posted:

Shower question

I've posted this before, but now I have a more specific question.

background: My best friend is getting married in PA (where we went to school-she and rest of bridal party are still in college). Her mother's friends are throwing a coed shower this month in PA, and FH and I are invited. The BP is also expected to throw her a shower, bc she wants a traditional shower with all her girl friends (mom's friend is only inviting parent's friends and BP-none of her other friends).
It's a lil pricy to travel, especially if I take Amtrack-which I probably will, stay in hotel overnight, and come backthe next day, plus i will be throwing her another shower that I have to travel for, and a bachlorette party to throw. Then, two weeks later, the wedding itself, hair, makeup, travel, hotel, etc.....the bills are adding up. Not that I mind too much, it's just frustrating.

Now, back to my question: What would an appropriate gift be for the first bridal shower (mom's friend's) that FH and I will attend?
soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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That's a tough one. First I think you should only get her one gift. Either for this shower or for the one you will be throwing her. Just because you are attending 2 showers doesn't mean the you have to get her 2 gifts. I would figure out how much you can afford to spend and then check her registry (assuming she has one) and decide on what you can afford.

Missladybug15 Posted:

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I would definitely buy her something from her registry

Athee07 Posted:

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Posted by Missladybug15

I would definitely buy her something from her registry



i agree with steph i def would as well
snowcat Posted:

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Thats what I was thinking, thanks!

JazzyT Posted:

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Something off her registy if she is registered, or something for the house or apartment she needs.

BklynItaliana Posted:

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Posted by Missladybug15

I would definitely buy her something from her registry



you can't go wrong w/ that.. but don't go overboard with the gift either b/c you are throwing her another party
Nina Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsdunn

That's a tough one. First I think you should only get her one gift. Either for this shower or for the one you will be throwing her. Just because you are attending 2 showers doesn't mean the you have to get her 2 gifts. I would figure out how much you can afford to spend and then check her registry (assuming she has one) and decide on what you can afford.



I agree with Vita.

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