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shower question...

gina409 Posted:

shower question...

do u invite every woman that u would invite tothe wedding?..we have some parents of our friends that we r invitingto the wedding and was not sure if we invite the wives to the shower..i mean i kow them and r friendly but not super close..dont want to offend anyone..thanks

FinallyMrsB18 Posted:

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that is what my mom did...she invited everyone woman invited to the wedding to the shower.....

Im a Pepper Posted:

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I think that's what you would do. But I was invited to FH's friend's wedding and I wasn't invited to his wife's bridal shower, so maybe it's based on how many people you want there and if you actually think certain people just don't need to be there.

megsher Posted:

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I'm only inviting the people closest to me. I was invited to on of fh's friend's wife shower and I thought it seemed like she just wanted more gifts. She barely knew me.

coldasice217 Posted:

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My mother intends on inviting every woman that's invited to the wedding, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with that given some of the women are wives of FH's coworkers that I have met maybe once or twice.

HM807 Posted:

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We are only inviting the ppl I know, or are friends/family of my parents or FIL's.
pandafish519 Posted:

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because our wedding list is so specific to us, pretty much every woman is being invited. there are some ppl in FH's family that don't know me and are OOT so i wouldn't expect them to come. but all of our close friends and family i would invite.

Kristina2009 Posted:

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I'm only inviting my closest friends and family to the shower. Not the whole wedding list. About half the women invited to the wedding are invited to the shower even though I know just about everyone on the wedding list.

GT143EA Posted:

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We are inviting every women to the shower that is invited to the wedding.....we are haveing a small wedding though so it will be a small shower as well.

michelle1024 Posted:

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You don't have to invite every woman to the shower that is invited to the wedding, it can just be close family/friends.

But whoever is invited to the shower has to be invited to the wedding.
JJC Posted:

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No Way! really a shower is for close friends and family... this means close friends of youand fh..
for instance...I had my list..then had people i didnt know well because they were good friends of fmil or fhs work friends wives...but not EVERY single woman! that would be crazy i think..
debzy Posted:

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Usually you only invite the women you/your mom/your FH/your FMIL is close to.

donnasmom09 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

do u invite every woman that u would invite tothe wedding?..we have some parents of our friends that we r invitingto the wedding and was not sure if we invite the wives to the shower..i mean i kow them and r friendly but not super close..dont want to offend anyone..thanks




I think I heard somewhere that's the tradition, to invite gals who are coming to the wedding.Mary MOB

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