Shower Question - Adding guests. A bit long but PLEASE HELP!

Madorie Posted: Jul 15, 2008 12:46 PM

Shower Question - Adding guests. A bit long but PLEASE HELP!

I have a question about adding people to your shower list.

My former manager who I love just sent me an email asking if anyone organizing a party for me and to give them her info. I don't know when my shower is, it may very well be this weekend for all I know.

I don't mind her asking b/c I do love her. I didn't have her on my orginal list because I was trying to keep my list of friends small (I have a lot of family). Plus I didn't think she'd want to come anyway since she wouldn't know anyone.

She also asked where we are registered. Is it bad to tell her that the shower invites already went out but to tell her where I'm registered?

I don't know what to say!!! Please help. TIA

pa56 Posted: Jul 15, 2008 01:30 PM

Re: Shower Question - Adding guests. A bit long but PLEASE HELP!

If you want her at your shower, forward her information to your mother or maid of honor and ask if it;s not too late, this woman would like to come. If they respond that it's too late already then I would tell this woman that you aren't doing a big bridal shower but a smaller one for family. You can tell her where you're registered since she will probably want to get you a wedding gift anyway.

LoriBeth2728 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 02:43 PM

Re: Shower Question - Adding guests. A bit long but PLEASE HELP!

I agree with pa.

shcole08 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 04:05 PM

Re: Shower Question - Adding guests. A bit long but PLEASE HELP!

I would def invite her to the shower. I had some people I didn't think i was going to invite and I gave them to my MOH but, they actually got the invites like a week before the shower which prob looked bad, They didn't come but, sent me and gift. I told them in the thank you card that some of the addresses got 'messed up' I think its nice to invite her since she seems so eager.