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jhines4684 Posted:

shower vent

Side note: I am currently PMSing, and this will be irrelevant by the end of the week.

I really feel no one (in my family) gives a rats a$$ about me getting married. I was just told by my mom a lot of no's came in. so my list went from 70 to 30.

30 effing people out 70 said yes. 10 aren't coming because they had already planned a family trip that weekend, (understandable). another 12 said no because they have a wedding on that side of the family (again, understandable), and the others gave no reason, or already called to cancel.

i partly blame my family for waiting so long to do the shower, this should have been done sooner, and then they wonder why I freak out and asked to many questions and why I didn't want it to be a surprise. why, so when i walk thru the door and see a tiny amount of people I make a face of disappointment???

this is stupid, i know, but i really really hope that closer to my wedding nobody pulls the cancellation card on ME. I will seriously write people off.

tell me why did i bother to have a wedding at all?

As long as I get my gifts, I guess I shouldn't complain, right? things have been flying off my registry, but is it sooo much to wanna see my family???

allornil Posted:

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damn Id be upset too :(

I'm sorry. Hopefully they'll all send a gift w regrets though.
jhines4684 Posted:

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Posted by allornil

damn Id be upset too :(

I'm sorry. Hopefully they'll all send a gift w regrets though.



60 things went off my registry, so I definitely no the regrets are sending things.
latinaj Posted:

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i feel the same way abt my shower

what if the room looks empty?
Ray8183 Posted:

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wenR Posted:

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Don't sweat it..I got 30 out of 60 at mine and I still got lots o' stuff.
Some people mailed a gift instead.
jhines4684 Posted:

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Posted by wenR

Don't sweat it..I got 30 out of 60 at mine and I still got lots o' stuff.
Some people mailed a gift instead.



the only reason i worry is because my mom rented a big hall....i hope they can close half of it, it's going to look so silly.
drivwal Posted:

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i wouldn't worry...don't stress about this stuff...you cannot change it so don't even let it get to you. just enjoy your time as the bride because it will all be over before you know it
GR2010 Posted:

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I seriously wouldn't worry about how the room looks or who isn't going to be there. You're going to have an amazing time no matter what. Just focus on the people who will be there to celebrate you!!!

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