ok so some of my BM have bben asking me why hasnt my MOH gotten in touch with them about the price of the shower......(I know its this sunday) so for a while i thought maybe my MOH was paying for it herself well this past sat was my Bachelorette party and one of my Bm told me they asked her how much it would cost and my MOH said oh it wont be that much it will be like (this #) per head......so to my Bm that sounded like she had to pay some money but the MOh hasnt said anything to anyone....i mean is sh really thinking clearly......i feel bad for the other girls
so i had my FH call the MOH to find out whats going on and she told him each BM will have to pay $250.,,,,,,,OMG i want to cry and she hasnt called them yet , she told my FH that they could have called her, how could she plan something and expect money from them and not tell them im so shocked...i want to cry
DanaRenee
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I would imagine your moh had to lay $$ out already. I can't imagine she is going to spring a bill on all the other bm's when the shower is over, that would be rude...to plan the whole thing with out the other girls consent with regard to cost. If she does this, the other bm's have every right to give only what they can afford. Or, maybe your moh thinks it is her responsibility to pay.
I think the right thing to do (if i were a BM) is to call up your MOH politely ask 'how much do we owe you for the shower?'
ETA: perhaps your parents offered to pay and only told the moh??
nicothy
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they could be tricking you about this shower on sunday, or maybe she paid for it
vinnysgrl
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i know i think it would be rude to to spring a bill on someone, my mom has passed so i know no one else would offer
DanaRenee
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Humm..do you think she has the $$ to pay for it herself? Maybe she is waiting for people to offer?
I think I'd have one of the other bms ask her...it would really be bothering me!
ali120206
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I've had that happen to me and it stinks!
I'm sorry they got you involved in it!!!
vinnysgrl
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bump
ewickens
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OMG $250/girl - that doesn't even include the gifts!!!!!!
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They could definitely be tricking you. One of my bridesmaids said she never recieved an invite and I got all stressed about it and it turns out that she was in on the whole thing. Let them worry about it.
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That's just wrong!! The BMs should not have to hunt down the MOH about the shower - the MOH should be recruiting the BMs for help. As for asking them to pay that kind of money in 3 days - I think she is in for a rude awakening. I'm sure she has already laid out the $$ since there is no way a resteraunt would agree to hold that kind of event without payment. She should consider herself lucky if she gets anything back - and YOU should stay out of it.
