Sick of...

I hear you with this 100% !!

People just love to have something to say, I am convinced! Its like the first question: When are you getting married...

Followed by: OH really(with like a look of shock)... well you have soooooo much time, your fine. You dont even have to be doing as much planning asd you are right now...

and with the mom thing... believe me- I understand this FULLY

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Posted by VickiR510

I dont think mopst of these people realize how quick things places book up. And really even if its not a vendor just wanting to get things outof the way so not have to worry about it. I dontthink they really grasp what a wedding entails these days. Tell them while you appreciate their feedback you really need to get things done for your own sake. Maybe that will shut em up.?????

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exactly...i finally said to them.. 'Gee, its a good thing I have you both around to remind me when my wedding is in case i forget how much time i have left!'

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by VickiR510

I dont think mopst of these people realize how quick things places book up. And really even if its not a vendor just wanting to get things outof the way so not have to worry about it. I dontthink they really grasp what a wedding entails these days. Tell them while you appreciate their feedback you really need to get things done for your own sake. Maybe that will shut em up.?????

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exactly...i finally said to them.. 'Gee, its a good thing I have you both around to remind me when my wedding is in case i forget how much time i have left!'

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lol that sfunny. Iknow people just dont get it. Im;like you i want it done so as to not worry about it. Get what you can get donenow. I agree do whatcha wanna do!

I hate this! I found a BM dress that I loved!!! And I got excited and sent out to my BMS! They said it was to early!!!

Oy I feel your pain

I hate this too. My FH was funny about that at first but then realized at the photographer that they do book up.

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Posted by Dr Meg

For me it's my FH. He keeps saying 'we have plenty of time'. Our e-party is next weekend, where we are asking people to be in the BP. He still has no idea who he is gonna ask

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OMG so other FH keep saying the same things
He says ' why am I starting to do stuff now?? HELLO!? It wont do itself..plus I have $$ now, time on my hands to set up appts, start projects...then I let him see 'bridezilla' show...and said...' THIS i why I am starting now.. so I do not become THAT next yr...who you will RUN from!

i know it...hang in there...lately i just keep my mouth shut and do stuff and then they are like oh why didn't you tell me...

my answer really should be 'because your evil'
but I smile say sorry slipped my mind lol

OH MY GOSH, I KNOW! It's the most annoying thing ever.

Funny you should bring this up, I just found a BM dress I love and I told the girls I want them to get measured so we can order it. And they r all like ' I wanna lose weight, I wanna lose weight'. Cool, but isn't that why you get fittings?!

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Posted by Soccadoc13

i couldn't agree more

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ditto !!!

OMG So true!!! The MOHs and BMs need to learn their role!!! Support support support! And then they call us bridezillas...don't they realize THEY are helping to bring that out of us?!?!

Don't listen to them....
I have exactly one week and I am sitting here doing all my DIY projects which I like doing but...one week left??? (and I'm not done yet)... I soooooooooooooo wish I had started everything earlier!!!!

AMEN!!!!!!!!!! I thought I was the only one that felt that way......every time I try to do something I hear that.

If I can get a $1 for everytime I hear that I would be RICH!!!!!!!!!$$$$$$$$$$

Mine is more than a year away still and I get this all the time....how about... I am getting sh*t done so that I can actually enjoy my wedding and not be running around like mad 2 months before my wedding!! People are dumb!