sigh

feeling very alone in the wedding planning process ... FH doesn't seem to care about it one way or the other ... i even had another nightmare ... no one came the ceremony ... even the officiant was late ... things just fell apart ...

it's probably cause i'm sick ... but i'm just not a happy camper today ....

AAwwwhhh! I am sorry you feel sad. You should explain this to your FH and let him know how you feel. SOmetimes guys can be jerks and need to be reminded. LOL sometimes my FH isnt interested too. I hate when they do that! Hope it gets better for you! ANd feel better!!

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Posted by lilangel369

feeling very alone in the wedding planning process ... FH doesn't seem to care about it one way or the other ... i even had another nightmare ... no one came the ceremony ... even the officiant was late ... things just fell apart ...

it's probably cause i'm sick ... but i'm just not a happy camper today ....

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I think a lot of people have FH's who aren't very into the planning process (and horror dreams about your wedding are normal!)

Have you planned the honeymoon yet, or limos? Those were a couple of things I was able to get FH interested in helping with.

My FH isn't totally involved in the planning process and sometimes i feel that its cause he's not excited about the wedding but i know thats not it. He's a guy and its in their nature not to really want to get involved in choosing flowers and colors. In the end it's been great cause I just get to make autonomous decisions with out having a battle about stupid things. He just wanted to do the DJ and RH...so we did that together, but the majority such as flowers, photographers, videographer I did on my own.

If you do really want his help though then sit him down and talk to him and explain the day is about the both of you and you want his imput!

ugh i had like 5 wedding nightmares in a row last night

yeah .. the nightmares really suck arse ...

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Posted by lilangel369

feeling very alone in the wedding planning process ... FH doesn't seem to care about it one way or the other ... i even had another nightmare ... no one came the ceremony ... even the officiant was late ... things just fell apart ...

it's probably cause i'm sick ... but i'm just not a happy camper today ....

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aww hunny don't worry.. you'll have a wonderful wedding and everything will go smooth.. I don't think that FH does not care one way or another.. I think they all care a lot..

give him a thing or two to do and i'm sure he'll get it done..

cheer up.. 2 more months to the big day!! :)

-sigh-I am not alone is the stress dept.!
Thankfully FH is not the one that makes me feel alone...my family does! I guess I just have to be patient. Maybe FH will come around when he sees the date is getting closer?