the only one with the issue is her ... she looked like friggin COUSIN IT !!!!!! at her cousin and her best friends wedding ... I finally confronted her on the hair issue ... she said to me ' you cant tell me how you want my hair CHRISTINE !!!!!!!!!!!! whoa .... girls this is what she looks like... she is very pretty .. but the dresses i got for the girls are not meant for the hair to be down !!!! all you see is hair in the other pic of her friends and her cousins wedding .... am i being selfish ... i have never asked her for anything ....... just not to wear her hair down ~!!!!! pic shortly will follow !
oh !! you think that is funny !!! oh girl you have no idea!!!
Greek2be
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no ... really after you laugh .. am i being selfish girls !!! i am not a selfish person but what is up with the hair ... i just cant believe the resemelenSe!!!!! ( did i spell resembelence wrong)?
to be honest... I wouldn't say it's being selfish, but you really shouldn't tell people how to wear their hair. Granted it's your day, but just let everyone be happy and comfortable with the way they look and just concentrate on you looking great!
kris15198
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Greek2be
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see!!! i knew someone would know what i am talking about!!!!!
DanNette
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If she wears her hair down, she kills the dress and loses the look. Her loss, just put her in the back when you take pictures so you don't have to see all that hair she is 'rockin!'.
Greek2be
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you read my mind!!!!
anglbyme
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I don't think you are being selfish. If I were you I would want her hair up and I would tell her that there is no choice.
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Posted by LBride
to be honest... I wouldn't say it's being selfish, but you really shouldn't tell people how to wear their hair. Granted it's your day, but just let everyone be happy and comfortable with the way they look and just concentrate on you looking great!
+1
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I dont think you are being selfish. If her hair is going to take away from the dress then just tell her it needs to be up. Oh well...its your day and you dont need someone looking like that
shellibean
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As the bride, I think you should have some say as to how your BMs where their hair on your day! Maybe 1/2 up????
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My BM's told me it's my wedding and however I want them to dress or wear their hair is completely up to me. And I really appreciate that even though I'm letting them all do their own unique hair style. So, I would tell her that everyone is wearing their hair up and if she doesn't then she can't be in the wedding. Tough love
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i def hear where you are coming from.....you have the right to say everyone should have their hair up...(if its long enough) all of my girls are expecting me to tell them exactly how to wear their hair (im not) ....i would def stress the issue....maybe even offer to pay for it
