Similar to Christine2010's STD Question

No, it's not about Chlamydia.

We have this friend, 'Linda', who actually introduced FH and I but lately, she's fallen out of touch with us and our group of friends. IN ADDITION, she has some personal problems that would make her unwanted at the wedding.

But until let's say four months ago, she was really involved in the wedding, and still brings it up with me on FB.

We're so torn... if we don't send an STD she'll know since we have a lot of the same friends..... so, it is really bad to send someone an STD and not an invite?? Ugh... We've got a decision to make in the next week or so.

I would say this is one of those cases where maybe you don't send a STD, just the invite (if you do decide to invite her) - this way, you have a good amount of time to mull it over.

The one problem you might run into with this is FB...that evil site that we all love so much. If people mention the STDs on your site and she sees it, then you'll have explaining to do. Unless someone knows of a way out of that predicament?

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

I would say this is one of those cases where maybe you don't send a STD, just the invite (if you do decide to invite her) - this way, you have a good amount of time to mull it over.

The one problem you might run into with this is FB...that evil site that we all love so much. If people mention the STDs on your site and she sees it, then you'll have explaining to do. Unless someone knows of a way out of that predicament?

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She'd find out.... outside of FB. I think we're screwed...

IDK if this will help you in what to do --- we are planning on sending STDs to the bridal party and family only this way if it comes up with people who we are unsure about we will tell them only fam and the BP got the STDs