but I am anxious. I feel like I do not have enough time. Like I wish the wedding was a year off not just over 5 months. I feel like things are not going to get done.
I had a nightmare last night that I was at the wedding & I forgot to do a whole bunch of things so we had nothing prepared.
Maybe I just like the planning stuff part though I have ****** at it recently & I have been engaged so long now, & that it will all come too quickly & be over before I know it.
What is wrong with me? Maybe it is the holidays & I am just transferring the stressing?
Mizzdimple
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Funny cuz FH tells me this....he cant sleep b/c hes thinking of everything going wrong....or the payments due..its normal really.
It happens to all of us
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You're probably just really stressed out with the wedding and of course the holidays. It's just SO much to do all in this time. But everything will get done and it'll wonderful. Try to relax and enjoy!
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Oh no..I'm not wishing it was further away at all. But I am thinking when its over what do I plan next
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its just anxiety...once your day is here you'll be able to relax.
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I know exactly how you feel! You are not alone. FH & I have been engaged since July 06 and when we got engaged I kept thinking that it was going to be the longest 2 yrs ever. Time is just flying right by!!!!!!!!!! We have 7 mths to go and I am just getting more and more anxious! I have the same nightmares...we'll be at the reception and something will be missing because we forgot to book it. They are the worst! It's normal for someone to have anxiety before such a big event. We will get through it and everything will get done!
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Posted by Mizzdimple
Funny cuz FH tells me this....he cant sleep b/c hes thinking of everything going wrong....or the payments due..its normal really.
It happens to all of us
I've had this dream before too!! Tell him he is not alone. I had a dream that I forgot my dress, that i forgot to bring the money. to pay the vendors That I forgot to invite people.
I am a ball of fun for Freud.. can we say basket case
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I can so relate. I feel like I am literally losing m y mind and what kills me the most is that FH thinks that we have a lot of time on our hands and I am trying to get him to see that we DON'T. At first I was so excited but now, stress is taking over and I feel as if I am falling apart.
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wait until its like a month or two away and you will feel like there is ALLL the time in the world and why won't it get here!
being anxious is totally common at this point--cause you have all your vendors lined up, ready to go and then you just have all this time to THINK of things that might go wrong! but don't let it stress you--just try and enjoy the holiday season!
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I know exactly how you feel! You are not alone. FH & I have been engaged since July 06 and when we got engaged I kept thinking that it was going to be the longest 2 yrs ever. Time is just flying right by!!!!!!!!!! We have 7 mths to go and I am just getting more and more anxious! I have the same nightmares...we'll be at the reception and something will be missing because we forgot to book it. They are the worst! It's normal for someone to have anxiety before such a big event. We will get through it and everything will get done!
Awww. You all are the best!!! Thank you. nice to know I am not certifiable.. well maybe I am but not b/c of this.lol
I have been engaged for 2 years too & I certainly wish I had joined this website ages ago & did more stuff sooner. i would have met you incredible ladies sooner & been soo much settled by now
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I can so relate. I feel like I am literally losing m y mind and what kills me the most is that FH thinks that we have a lot of time on our hands and I am trying to get him to see that we DON'T. At first I was so excited but now, stress is taking over and I feel as if I am falling apart.
OMG... can I tell you how FH has not even thought about his tux yet. he turned to me yesterday & was like.. Oh yeah we should get a limo soon huh. Yes we need that.
On top of that I haven't done Christmas shopping
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I know exactly how you feel! You are not alone. FH & I have been engaged since July 06 and when we got engaged I kept thinking that it was going to be the longest 2 yrs ever. Time is just flying right by!!!!!!!!!! We have 7 mths to go and I am just getting more and more anxious! I have the same nightmares...we'll be at the reception and something will be missing because we forgot to book it. They are the worst! It's normal for someone to have anxiety before such a big event. We will get through it and everything will get done!
Awww. You all are the best!!! Thank you. nice to know I am not certifiable.. well maybe I am but not b/c of this.lol
I have been engaged for 2 years too & I certainly wish I had joined this website ages ago & did more stuff sooner. i would have met you incredible ladies sooner & been soo much settled by now
See you found it at a perfect time!! We can keep each other sane!
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<--------------------- Has not bought 1 Christmas gift yet!
Christmas gift, what's that? Seriously, I have not done anyt Christmas shopping. This wedding this is just consuming me.
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<--------------------- Has not bought 1 Christmas gift yet!
HAHA love the arrow.
wanna hear about holiday stress.
FH neices. ALL THREE OF THEM have birthday Oct, Nov, Dec, His sister &her husbands birthday's are this month. Plus I have all the christmas gifts to buy. Ugh
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<--------------------- Has not bought 1 Christmas gift yet!
Christmas gift, what's that? Seriously, I have not done anyt Christmas shopping. This wedding this is just consuming me.
we should make a club of non Christmas gift buying brides.
FH says no one is getting anything for Christmas because of the wedding. He is such a grinch..lol
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sometimes I fee like this
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<--------------------- Has not bought 1 Christmas gift yet!
HAHA love the arrow.
wanna hear about holiday stress.
FH neices. ALL THREE OF THEM have birthday Oct, Nov, Dec, His sister &her husbands birthday's are this month. Plus I have all the christmas gifts to buy. Ugh
I know it suxs! My part-time job is in retail so I haven't had a weekend off since before Thanksgiving. Every Sunday I get @ssed out with the succkkkiest schedule. 2-10 As the weeks progress it gets later and later. This Sunday I'm till 11pm and the following right before Xmas I'm till midnight! AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!
Sooooooo sorry Vent OVER!!!!!!!!
Celest
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VEnt all u want. I am completely on your level with it all
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it will all be over beforeyou know it! i cnat beleive how fast its going, im nervous, excited, anxious...then i wish i had more time, then i wish it was like tomm, then im like you know what just stop, be happy with where you and and enjoy engaged life bc there will be pleeeenty of time for married life
