SINCE IM A PERFECTIONIST

miss nee Posted: Sep 07, 2006 11:29 PM

SINCE IM A PERFECTIONIST

IM REALLY TRYING HARD TO LET MY MOH PLAN MY BRIDAL SHOWER..I WANT IT PLANNED JUST AS DILIGENTLY AS MY WEDDING..AND I WANT THE PLANNING STARTED YESTERDAY ..AM I ALONE @TRYING NOT BE INVOLVED IN EVERY ASPECT???

JIFFY Posted: Sep 07, 2006 11:31 PM

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When it comes to the shower I have put my OCD aside. I have too much to handle anyway- let them do it. Besides sometimes people get enjoyment out of doing something nice for others. Let them do this for you, sit back, and enjoy the ride!!!

sfmullen Posted: Sep 07, 2006 11:33 PM

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I am in the same situation except it is about the rehersal dinner my FH's sister and mother are planning it and they are from England and dont know much about american weddings. I am nervous!

kns11 Posted: Sep 07, 2006 11:34 PM

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Posted by JIFFY

When it comes to the shower I have put my OCD aside. I have too much to handle anyway- let them do it. Besides sometimes people get enjoyment out of doing something nice for others. Let them do this for you, sit back, and enjoy the ride!!!

Very well put.

I would offer advice as to what you would enjoy, such as location, time, type of food.

miss nee Posted: Sep 07, 2006 11:35 PM

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OK OK OK IM GONNA TRY REALLYYYY HARD

Hisforever Posted: Sep 07, 2006 11:38 PM

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thats sounds like me too!!!

libby2595 Posted: Sep 08, 2006 06:52 AM

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look at it this way... you don't HAVE TO be involved.

i HAD TO help plan my shower. my ENTIRE BP is from out of state. i had to pick the place, since they've never even been in nj

sit back and enjoy