Since my BIL dropped out of the wedding.. and then I added a bridesmaid..

AJsMommy122 Thread views: 618

Since my BIL dropped out of the wedding.. and then I added a bridesmaid..

My bms and ushers are uneven
I really really like the way it looks in pictures when its equal......
One of my bms is engaged to a guy who my fh is good friends with.. he originally didnt ask him to be a groomsmen b/c we were doing just family since it was even... Do you think my fh should ask him or should I leave it as is?? I know he wont be offended at all if we explain to him it was originally going to be just family...

JimmysBride Thread views: 618

Re: Since my BIL dropped out of the wedding.. and then I added a bridesmaid..

Personally, I would leave it as is. A bridal party is a delicate thing... just family sounds like a good criteria to me...

AJsMommy122 Thread views: 618

Re: Since my BIL dropped out of the wedding.. and then I added a bridesmaid..

well on his side its just family not on my side. Its half family half friends.

jensun Thread views: 618

Re: Since my BIL dropped out of the wedding.. and then I added a bridesmaid..

I am the same way, it is something about symmetry.... I would ask him...

AJsMommy122 Thread views: 618

Re: Since my BIL dropped out of the wedding.. and then I added a bridesmaid..

Posted by jensun

I am the same way, it is something about symmetry.... I would ask him...

Ok so Im not nuts?? lol Im freakin out going OMG the pictures will look crooked!!!

cmastro25 Thread views: 618

Re: Since my BIL dropped out of the wedding.. and then I added a bridesmaid..

Is your BIL definitely not doing it? That's the first thing. Second, I don't like uneven either. I would ask the other guy to step in.

LMFitz Thread views: 618

Re: Since my BIL dropped out of the wedding.. and then I added a bridesmaid..

I would chose based on your relationships and not on the pictures. Twenty years from now, I want to know that my BP was the closest people in our luves, and I don't expect I'll be bothered by any un-evenness.
FYI, I'm having 4 BM's and he's having 8 groomsmen! So much for symmetry!