put the f...n RSVP in the mail!! when should i make that phone call??
how sad...
ammie1016
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I am giving them a week after the RSVP, then making the calls.
08JulyBride
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how far past your RSVP date are you?
ttw910
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I said I was going to give people a week after the RSVP date to start calling, but within that week I received all of the remaining RSVP's, so I didn't have to call anyone.
jcslady
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Posted by 08JulyBride
how far past your RSVP date are you?
about a week!
jennarose023
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Posted by jcslady
Posted by 08JulyBride
how far past your RSVP date are you?
about a week!
i would start calling/emailing...it would drive me nuts!
Kerin2804
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We waited a few days after the date. Then I sent an email to a few close friends/family members that I knew I could do this with. The others straggled in and my mom called a few.
sheyrena1314
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don't feel bad - i'm 5 days passed the deadline and still have 90 response cards that need to come back (that's 180 people!)
bluekat16
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I'm soo not looking forward to this part.
I'm sorry you're going through this...def. start calling them.
sweetdoublenn
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I know how you feel! I felt the same way..I gave them past the rsvp day and made 1 call..if they didn't call back that was it!!!!
shcole08
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I gave them a week. Still some of them haven't responded to that. UGH, If they don't respond by the end of the weekend I am putting them down as not coming.
Kricket212
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I would figure out when you need to came the final payment. If it's the first week of OCt? then I would give them 2 more weeks & then call.
dante31300
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I would start calling and emailing now. It's sad that even with a stamp on the damn thing people find it hard to respond on or before the due date.
wifetobe
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Im not even waiting a week. My date was yesterday.. I emailed a friend today and Im giving my FMIL names of people tonight. FH is going to call his friends Monday. I only had two people from my side not respond. FH has 40!!!
emomma17
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Posted by jcslady
put the f...n RSVP in the mail!! when should i make that phone call??
how sad...
I was just going to ask this question!!! My RSVP date was the 1st of the month...I am going to give it this week and than I am officially calling (ok a little lie I made my mother start calling her friends bc she is my mom and I can!). I know I have some time but I don't have time to start figuring out my seating chart the day before the wedding :)...this is what pushes me over the edge. I forget who wrote the RSVP Poem on here, but it should be put into each envelope for people to read!
stephanienyc2002
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i'm going to start calling sat. i'll make my mom call her friends and feel them out. only have about 20 out but that's still a lot and the wedding is in about 2 weeks.
fujamaga
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Start calling now and don't put them down as not coming. I did that with one of my RSVP's because I called/emailed, etc and they never responded. Guess who showed up at the wedding....
KarinAmanda
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ugh I hear ya, my RSVP date is 8 days away and HALF MY FREAKING BRIDAL PARTY hasnt bothered to send the RSVP, not to mention our families ....
we are missing about 115
Wifeynella
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I'm waiting 5 mailing days for overdue RSVPs and then start calling people.
TrueLoveIn2008
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My RSVP date is Sept 25. I am going to start making calls on Oct 1.