Your def. not a horrible person because this happened to FH and I. FH's friend got engaged MONTHSSS after us. We had our wedding date set and everything, and then all of a sudden his friend got engaged and they decided that it would be great to make there wedding like 2 months before ours. So needless to say, we aren't friends anymore. That may sound stupid, but it was without a doubt done out of that they wanted theirs before ours. So I def. know how you feel It sucks but I feel like if you know that your friends wedding is at a certain time, you don't go booking it like a month or two before theirs. It's just kind of screwed up.
Okay, I'm done venting now! lol
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You are not a horrible friend but do not worry...... Both of your weddings will be amazing. One of my best friends just got engaged and I told her that I do not care when she gets married. The only thing I asked was that it was not at the same hall before me! I told her that she could have it in the same room as long as it was April 21st or after haha
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That's the way it should be! Obviously you are happy for the person, I just believe it's wrong to have your wedding like 2 months before your friends. It's just rude.
I feel like there's always some kind of drama when planning your wedding lol
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I think its normal to feel this way. Deep down we all want everyone to focus on us and have everything be about our wedding day. I mean 'cmon we are spending a good amount of money on this so we want people to remember it and not confuse it with someone else's wedding. Nature has made us selfish creatures. What is important is that you realize you shouldn't feel overshadowed and just be happy for her after all those initial feelings.
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Posted by soon2bmrsammo
Your def. not a horrible person because this happened to FH and I. FH's friend got engaged MONTHSSS after us. We had our wedding date set and everything, and then all of a sudden his friend got engaged and they decided that it would be great to make there wedding like 2 months before ours. So needless to say, we aren't friends anymore. That may sound stupid, but it was without a doubt done out of that they wanted theirs before ours. So I def. know how you feel It sucks but I feel like if you know that your friends wedding is at a certain time, you don't go booking it like a month or two before theirs. It's just kind of screwed up.
Okay, I'm done venting now! lol
omg the same thing happened to us, 3 months after we had been engaged our best man got engaged and a week later they set their Destination Wedding 2 months to the day before ours, it still annoys me soo much and i feel hoorible that when ever she talks about her wedding i wanna just scream and yell at her. its just rude and selfish.
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Your def. not a horrible person because this happened to FH and I. FH's friend got engaged MONTHSSS after us. We had our wedding date set and everything, and then all of a sudden his friend got engaged and they decided that it would be great to make there wedding like 2 months before ours. So needless to say, we aren't friends anymore. That may sound stupid, but it was without a doubt done out of that they wanted theirs before ours. So I def. know how you feel It sucks but I feel like if you know that your friends wedding is at a certain time, you don't go booking it like a month or two before theirs. It's just kind of screwed up.
Okay, I'm done venting now! lol
omg the same thing happened to us, 3 months after we had been engaged our best man got engaged and a week later they set their Destination Wedding 2 months to the day before ours, it still annoys me soo much and i feel hoorible that when ever she talks about her wedding i wanna just scream and yell at her. its just rude and selfish.
Well at least I'm not the only one!! lol It's definitely rude and selfish. It's unfortunate that we don't speak anymore. But I feel like over time you truly realize who your true friends are.
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OMG YOU HORRIBLE BRIDEZILLA!!!
So just kidding! We all have these moments. We all want it to be OUR special time and honestly I don't think there is even anything wrong with that. For most of us, this is the only time something of this magnitude is happening all for us and we don't want to share.
Just realize that no matter what your wedding is going to be the way you wanted and fabulous no matter when she has hers.
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You do not deserve to be slapped! I am in a similar situation with a family member and have literally cried over it!
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your not a horrible person! I totally understand... just keep in mind you will shine no matter what
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I'd be super mad, too. You are justified.
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I dont think you deserve to be slapped at all. I think everyones initial reaction would be just that. None of us want to have our thunder stolen especially when so much effort goes into wedding planning.
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Omg Im in such a similar situation! Two of my friends got engaged after me. One set a date for July, so I'm ok with that. The other has yet to set a date and I'm so nervous ahhhh