Just thought I would let you girls know that my FIL's have not asked me one thing about this wedding, and I mean nothing. Now it is time to get the invites ordered and I, yes I have to email the cousin in NJ to ask for the addresses. FI asked my FFIL for address for his side of the family and he said that they don't have to be invited, so now I just had to take 14 people off of my list and probably won't meet my minimum.
These people are soooooo friggin unorganized and I really am at my wits end with them!!!!
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
JPC1125
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so sorry for the stress
but why dont they need to be invited?
Im sure you can find 14 more friends or co-workers to meet your minimum
just remember it could always be worse
pinkstar025
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OMG I am so sorry!!! Thats not fair!! If you dont meet your minimum I'LL COME!!!! Don't wory , this will all workout!!!!!
ETA: i made one hug word..cause the spacebar didnt hit hard enough
QueensBride
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He (FFIL) is just lazy and won't get the addresses. A few of the guests are his own sister and her kids, but they hardly speak so I guess he doesn't want her there. I am so just done with these people and I'm not even married!!!!!!!
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Posted by QueensBride
He (FFIL) is just lazy and won't get the addresses. A few of the guests are his own sister and her kids, but they hardly speak so I guess he doesn't want her there. I am so just done with these people and I'm not even married!!!!!!!
I would still try my best to get his side of the families addresses and send invitations.
My dad was the same way and guess what? when the invitations went out I only sent it to my Aunt ( his only sister) b/c she was the only person I had an address for. The rest of the family found out and flipped out!!! So my dad wound up calling me in a panic asking me to send invitations to a whole list of people Thank goodness I had extra invitations.. and I still ran short!! Plus they were late and I hate to change the RSVP cards.. it was a mess!
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prncssrachel
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WOW, do we have the SAME in-laws????? Let me tell you, JT's parents have NOT been involved in ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM with this wedding, and NOW, FOUR DAYS BEFORE, his mother THINKS she is going to have a say in our day. OH, I DON'T THINK SO!!!!!!!!
Hang in there. Just don't let them have their two cents when it comes time for the wedding!
naps627
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russos on the bay is so nice. you will have a wonderful wedding no matter what and who are there. don't stress. i love that place. there viennese is the best.
QueensBride
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Thanks girls I really don't think they will want any say they haven't even asked about anything. They just have no interest. I feel bad for my FI because he is the only boy and the parents are just so concerned about his 2 sisters and not him. They are the worst!
Thank Goodness that my family is the total opposite
