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So angry - need to vent

evita2781 Posted:

So angry - need to vent

I don't know why I'm so angry but I told one of my coworkers that's at a client w/ me yesterday who my fiance is (who happens to be an ex-employee of the company we work for). So he goes ahead and tells this one girl who tells another girl and tells another and now people are emailing me asking me about it. I wanted to tell people myself and due to being an auditor, i'm constantly travelling and never in the office. Now people know and I'm just angry cuz i wanted to tell them in person... but it's like, i told you to not tell anybody and then you still do???

sorry needed to vent - i feel better now
jwleewedding Posted:

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i absolutely hate office gossip... it's the bane of my existence!

i'm sorry... vent it all out girl! and if i were you, i'd confront the girl who blabbed...
LoveyDovey Posted:

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ditto...

i work in a hospital its like being in high school! its amazing the rumors that go around


take it as a lesson learned...don tell anyone anything!

ElovesJ117 Posted:

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That is annoying! I would say something to the girl and be like what happened? I specifically asked you not to say anything. It won't change anything but maybe you will feel a little better lol

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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OMG people are really bored with their lives because coworkers are SO bad about gossip. I haaaate it! I'm sorry, it's part of work life I've come to realize. I just learned not to say a word more than I have to.
evita2781 Posted:

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You know - the funny thing about all of this is that it was a GUY who told a girl who then told other girls. but regardless of gender - he should've kept his mouth shut.

My coworker just told me to let it go viral

evita2781 Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

OMG people are really bored with their lives because coworkers are SO bad about gossip. I haaaate it! I'm sorry, it's part of work life I've come to realize. I just learned not to say a word more than I have to.



YUP i know! that's why FH and i didn't tell people that we were dating the WHOLE time we were dating. I obv couldn't hide the engagement unless i wore gloves everyday
VCanizalez Posted:

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OMG Da *****...
It sukcs to work in a office bc u will always get those Rumors... and those ppl who will say things even when they are not suppose to!!!
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by evita2781

You know - the funny thing about all of this is that it was a GUY who told a girl who then told other girls. but regardless of gender - he should've kept his mouth shut.

My coworker just told me to let it go viral




Lol....
A guy?
Well u will b surprise I think soem guys hide it but i think they do gossip just as much as a woman do!!
Panamasweet Posted:

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I never trust people i work with. i got burned so hard that it scorned me for life

except FH....we use to work together.
The Cassie Posted:

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ugh office drama is the total worst. and the fact that youre not there everyday makes it worse. Sorry they did that :(

Tromsugar2b Posted:

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sounds like first grade!!

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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Posted by Panamasweet

I never trust people i work with. i got burned so hard that it scorned me for life

except FH....we use to work together.



same thing happened to me! I was too naive when I started work and found out QUICK not everyone has your best interests in mind.

FH works with me and I'd go insane if he didn't. There is only one other coworker I trust completely!
evita2781 Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi


Posted by Panamasweet

I never trust people i work with. i got burned so hard that it scorned me for life

except FH....we use to work together.



same thing happened to me! I was too naive when I started work and found out QUICK not everyone has your best interests in mind.

FH works with me and I'd go insane if he didn't. There is only one other coworker I trust completely!



Yea I miss my FH not working with me anymore but he'd probably be really angry with all this gossiping going on right now. We trusted one person and for 3 years...even now...this person doesnt tell anybody about us. it really is just like HS/elementary school all over again...sigh
FFsBride Posted:

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you have every right to be mad!!! that's a huge secret you trusted him with - the nerve! ahhhh its the same everywhere
Moonmist09 Posted:

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so much office drama! its up to you, maybe confront them guy you told, if not, since your not really in the office that much, just let it go...

Jessc4985 Posted:

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That is frustrating!!!! Feel better!!!

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