so.. are you married yet?

im sure im not the only 1 that gets asked this..

when ppl you havent spoken to.. or ppl ur not that close with i.m. you or ask u when u see them...'so are you married yet?' but they arent sincere about it.. especially guys. i cant fkn stand it..

its like OK STFU.. not like you're invited u obnoxious pos.!

sorry im venting.. im sick of getting asked that 2-3 times a day.

i get the 'whatever....ur married' as a response.

such as......

'friend: im so worried about what to do with Tom.

me: im sure it'll work itself out

friend: yea. whatever...ur married. '

ummmm NO im not. and this 'marriage' is my first serious relationship. they act like i know nothing about being single...

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Posted by bkbaby4life

i get the 'whatever....ur married' as a response.

such as......

'friend: im so worried about what to do with Tom.

me: im sure it'll work itself out

friend: yea. whatever...ur married. '

ummmm NO im not. and this 'marriage' is my first serious relationship. they act like i know nothing about being single...

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but dont you know...comitted relationships mean that you have no clue about what its like to be dating someone!!! No of us brides-to-be ever dated before!!!! lol

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Posted by rocketsummer17

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Posted by bkbaby4life

i get the 'whatever....ur married' as a response.

such as......

'friend: im so worried about what to do with Tom.

me: im sure it'll work itself out

friend: yea. whatever...ur married. '

ummmm NO im not. and this 'marriage' is my first serious relationship. they act like i know nothing about being single...

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but dont you know...comitted relationships mean that you have no clue about what its like to be dating someone!!! No of us brides-to-be ever dated before!!!! lol

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Oohh I get that alot and I hate it!! It's like you can't give good advice on dating because you're in a serious relationship!??? ***?

we have gotten

'Will you marry her already!'

'why wait so long, get married next month'

'Wow, thats so far away'


Then you have my mother


'why are you getting married so fast, wait a few more years and save more money' Or

'why have a big wedding, just go to Vegas'

At 33 I get asked repeatedly why we don't just elope and go to Vegas. I want a wedding dammit!

'It's just a wedding, such a waste of money... save it for something else.'

If I wanted your opinion on what to do with my money, I'd hire you as my financial advisor -- STFU

From my family: Wow, we're not getting any younger -- think you can move your wedding up?

-- Thanks for making me feel guilty about saving money! And no, unless you're going to PAY for it... I can't move the wedding up...!

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

At 33 I get asked repeatedly why we don't just elope and go to Vegas. I want a wedding dammit!

'It's just a wedding, such a waste of money... save it for something else.'

If I wanted your opinion on what to do with my money, I'd hire you as my financial advisor -- STFU

From my family: Wow, we're not getting any younger -- think you can move your wedding up?

-- Thanks for making me feel guilty about saving money! And no, unless you're going to PAY for it... I can't move the wedding up...!

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im sure this all comes from people who have had their big white wedding already. ugh.

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Posted by christine2010

i know what you mean, except i get the, 'oh so your finally engaged?' with the emphasis on finally. i just want to punch people in the face when they say that.

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We get that ALL the time!!!!!!! I hate it!!!!