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So bored and upset!!!

coldasice217 Posted:

So bored and upset!!!

Ugh, I am sooooooo bored right now. I haven't gotten out of pajamas since New Years Day lol. And it looks like I won't until I have to go back to work on Monday. This pink eye is kicking my butt. And FH had an extremely bad allergy attack this week because he was upstairs too long at my house while we were cooking, and was exposed to the cat too long, and he's still suffering and it's starting to affect his chest and side muscles

It really s ucks...I love my cat so much, but he's like slowly killing FH, and now FH doesn't want to come to my house anymore, and he doesn't want me to come over to his house and contaminate his living space either. I don't know what we're going to do, but we probably will only see each other maybe once a week, once every two weeks now. I wish we were able to live together to avoid this.
FutureMrsM Posted:

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sorry to hear you are so bummed. Maybe FH can try Allegra (allergy medication) My ex was allergic to my cats and he would just pop one of them before he came over and he was fine, he used to even pet the cats and everything once he started taking it, the first couple of times he came over without taking it he was on the verge of dying...

tammi2308 Posted:

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I'm bored also...haha. Fh is sick and he worked all day. I made him soup and he took some medicine and now he's out cold. lol. Monday back to work! ughh! haha. I can't complain though we had such as nice long vacation. Fh and I are both allergic to cats, and whenever we visit his parents we take Allegra or Claritin bv they have a very very fluffy cat..haha... the medicine works so well. Does he take anything for his allergies? Also, his mom has to go crazy cleaning the cat hair and even takes out special pillows for the couch for when we visit... kinda funnt but it helps a lot.
WishfulRinne Posted:

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I know this must be hard for you but FH needs to make compromises. I agree that he should take an allergy medicine. And you will get better soon! Pink eye *****! Im sorry!

coldasice217 Posted:

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He is severely allergic to cats tho, not just mildly. He was given lots of prescriptions, and nothing really works. The latest one seemed to be OK...it was a nasal spray, but his insurance is weird and if it's refilled more than two times it becomes considered 'maintenance' and can't be filled at a store, has to be mail ordered, so NATURALLY he won't do that. He was taking Claritan D which would make it manageable, but he doesn't like that it makes him jumpy, and that stopped working now too! I don't think the Allegra worked for him either. It's just awful. Our house is very clean, my mother cleans and vacuums and dusts and gets up the fur every day, but it's not the fur, it's actually his evaporated saliva from when he licks himself! The allergen is actually the protein in that, not the actual fur. So it's like there's really nothing that can be done, except not have a cat or be around it
HappyBride22 Posted:

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Yeah, the medicine is worth a shot.

tammi2308 Posted:

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WOW! sorry to hear this, that sux! I can only imagine what he must feel like then bc if I dont take any allergy med and I'm around a cat, it's terrible!!

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