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So depressed....

luvsun27 Posted:

So depressed....

I know my shower is this Saturday...only 5 days away...and there is hardly anything missing from my registry. I know that there will be only about 25 people at the shower....but, really, there is not much missing. I have been to so many showers and there are always so many gifts...I'm afraid everyone will be bored...with only 2 presents to open for me! Ugh....

prncssrachel Posted:

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It's very possible they did not buy your gifts from where you have your registry, OR they did not tell the people to take it off your registry. That happened to me quite a few times and I had to update my registry. Also, maybe they are having a themed shower for you, and so the gifts will not be from the registry. In any case, just relax, at least you're having a shower. Not every girl gets one.

jennbaby Posted:

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people buy at the last minute.
Dont be depressed
DrmnBlnd Posted:

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Sweetie, don't worry- I just had mine, and there were so many things that I got that were not taken off the registries. I had about the same amount of people you will have. Like I said, don't worry- you'll be very surprised about how much you get!

xjulietx Posted:

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I agree that people will buy at the last minute, or maybe stuff was ordered online and it hasn't come off because the order is being processed.

divabride Posted:

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If you have friends that are like me, you'll see everything disappear the night before the shower!!! Dont worry about it. Most people shop at the last minute!!

NovemberSue Posted:

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I think a lot of people shop last minute. They will probably go out Thursday or Friday night to pick up something. We had a lot of people give us things we didn't register for from a totally different store so that may be the same case for you.

aliciahelene Posted:

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This same thing happened to me..I had so many things left on my registry, but teh day I HOOKED up..I swear people wait until the alsty possible minute, also if you are with Fortunoffs, they have a habit of screwing everything up, people bought off my registry, but it was never taken off of my registry!!!! You have a GREAT shower!!!
brideinapril Posted:

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Don't be sad, its true, people buy at the last minute, or they just didn't say they were buying off a registry so the items weren't removed.

NYCMeghan Posted:

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also another thought - it takes some stores longer than others to reflect when purchases have been made off of a registry - so there could be a lot purchased off of your list and the store just hasn't updated yet...I had a few stores take several weeks to update things I got off of the registry as christmas gifts

nferrandi Posted:

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I regret to admit, but I am a same-day shopper. I always feel there's plenty of time before the shower and then it's here and I have to run to the store. Not to mention, a lot of times things don't come off the registry for whatever reason. I recently went to a shower where a friend and I bought the same gift and it was never removed.

sun86moon Posted:

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Don't worry. You will be fine. You will get things off of your registry and things not from it. Don't sweat it! Not worth getting upset for.

AJsMommy122 Posted:

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between people buying last min. and some people like to give more personal things and not shop off the registry. also when I had my baby shower I got alot of doubles b/c ALOT of things were never taken off the registry when they were purchased! I had enough store credit at babies r us from returning all the extras I got, I bought a new bedding set ($170) a changing table ($350) and a rocking chair ($230). Dont worry!!!

luvsun27 Posted:

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Thanks ladies...you made me feel alot better! I'll be looking forward to Saturday...

sag530 Posted:

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Lots of times people don't tell the stores to remove items from your registry. I'm sure you will be 'showered' with beautiful gifts!

MrHostility Posted:

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I thought you weren't supposed to be looking anyway?
princess99 Posted:

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I went thru this also. A lot of people shop last minute.... or in my case during a snowstorm!!!!! ( My shower was the day after that big storm in December) Also, Fortunoff was forgetting to take things off my registry, and people did shop at other stores. It will all work out.
luvsun27 Posted:

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Posted by MrHostility

I thought you weren't supposed to be looking anyway?



Everyone looks
wenndypoo Posted:

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Don't worry darlin', people do shop last minute!
Try to relax and enjoy
MrHostility Posted:

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We got something for someone's eparty, but we decided to get it off Amazon instead of where they registered...it was more than $10 cheaper!

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