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So depressed...FINALLY UPDATED! I kow you waited a long time!!

Original post by Jsquared279

Hey Girls! I really need your prayers. There is a lot going on right now and I am having a really hard time keeping it together.

Remember last week how I said I was going to have make up some vacation time for the wedding and honeymoon even though I went through all the correct avenues to get the time off approved? Well now the new story is 'it is against company policy to make up time' so they will likely be taking my pay for all my wedding/honeymoon time. I just don't know what to do. Right now I am in limbo. Waiting for the managing partner to sit down with me and workout something out but my request to meet today has not been acknowledged. My whole family seems to think that I am getting fired. That they are changing policies just to say that I am not following policy. I did everything they asked of me. If the vacation time was a problem, why was it approved??

Please pray for me. I am so scared and so worried. I don't know why they are doing this.

In addition I was supposed to have a second fitting this past Saturday and my dress was not there. The seamstress 'forgot' to bring it back. So I am rescheduled for another fitting this Thursday at 1 (while on my lunch hour). Please pray my dress is there and ready.

Thanks girls, any support you can possibly give would be greatly appreciated


UPDATE: MEETING SET WITH HEAD PARTNER AT 3:30 TODAY! Please pray for me!!



UPDATE #2: Thank you so much girls for all thinking of me and being concerned!! Things went quite well actually. I still have my job. They won't let me work overtime, but they also are not docking my pay. So we are going to work something out. I am gonna put some time in on Christmas Eve even though I am supposed to be off. And basically his attitude was if you work with us we will work with you. Also it turned out my vacation hours were accruing at a lower rate than what was promised. So that is going to be adjusted and will hopefully help. Also We are getting the day after Christmas off so I don't have to use my hours for that. I think it is all going to work out and he was very kind and accommodating with me. So overall it was a good outcome. He never knew that I asked for approval so long ago and was approved. He also never knew that at that time I asked what can be done to make sure I have enough hours and won't be behind upon my return. So he was upset that his partner never told him that I tried to do things the right way! So it was a good meeting! I was relieved. Thanks for asking!! LOVE YOU GIRLS@
FutureMrsG Posted:

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Good luck!
Karsav7096 Posted:

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Good luck!! I know how scary it is to have a meeting with the lead partner!! Just try to keep cool and calm.

Utterhappiness Posted:

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Good luck at the meeting!!!
angels914 Posted:

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Good Luck ! It is almost 3:30... so I hope that all goes well !!!!!!!!!!
StefPalma Posted:

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good luck!

nicopico13 Posted:

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good luck!!
LeeAnne Posted:

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good luck jess!

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted:

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I have my fingers crossed for you right now, I hope theyre not A-holes in the meeting
flairforfashion Posted:

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Awww girl. I am so sorry. Sometimes, come bosses are a-holes. I can't fathom why they do stuff like this especially when money is needed the most. I know you are in the meeting now. I have my fingers crossed for you!

christophersgirl Posted:

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good luck hun! i for you!!!!
Dani777 Posted:

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It's been almost 45 mins... is the meeting still going on??? I hope that everything is ok...
JennyAPH Posted:

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Posted by Dani777

It's been almost 45 mins... is the meeting still going on??? I hope that everything is ok...



Yeah I was just wondering how everything went.
FutureMrsM Posted:

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Just saw this, your meeting is probably over by now, I hope it went well. Any updates??? I have my fingers crossed for you!

Dani777 Posted:

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Could it really still be going on..? I didn't think a meeting of vacation time could be that long... less something else is happening... OH NO! I'm soo nervous for her! I hope she gets what she is SUPPOSED to get! That's soo wrong of her company!

Fall BZ 2009 Posted:

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Good luck and hope everything works out for you!
Nuvia97 Posted:

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keep up updated after the mtg!
xosweetiexo Posted:

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OMG just read this.... I hope everything went okay- PLEASE UPDATE!!!!!!

PoppedInASnap Posted:

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I said a prayer i hope it wasnt too late...
browneyes Posted:

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i hope ur meeting went well today

EmiNoa628 Posted:

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Don't get too stressed out... Remember there is nothing that doesn't have a solution. If you have to take a hit and not get paid for you vacation, then let that be until your wedding day. If you see they can't work with you after your wedding, then start looking for something else. Just act cool becuase things are fishy everywhere and you don't want to get stressed out listening to soo many people. Wish you the best!!!

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