Ok girls,that went to the gtg, I'm so sorry that I wasn't able to go or to notify you
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I planned on going & I even picked my outfit out this morning before work
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When my soon to be EX-Roommate, caused foolish drama!
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As some of you may know, FH & I decided to move in together, I notified my roomate that 12-1 would be the last rent she recv'd from me. We even worked out an arrangment that I would play her for an extra weeks rent, so I can allow myself time to move, (combine w/ FH @ his place put what we don't need in our parents basement and move in w/o it being too much of a hassel.. especially w/ the holidays and starting a new job 2 weeks ago.
the past few weeks to days leading up to today She has been, angry, rude, and doing everthing in her power to make things more difficult for me.
We were olny living together for a few months, but all week I've been getting phone calls, asking if she can have my headboard, my blender, etc. This chick has got to be effing kidding me, I'm always at my FH's, I think i've only slept there 5 nights, she wants to keep things that I owned, before I moved in . I was nice enough to lend her my flatscreen tv, for her bedroom, when her's broke, and since i was never there I wouldn't miss it. Tonight after work I went there, paid her the rent, and was going to load my car & a friends to lighten the loads so it really wasn't like Our apt, was too chaotic when I moved in..
My soon to be EX roomate, fliped her lid! When I & my friend were talking about how we were going to take the tv out. This chick thought she was going to keep my tv... who behaves like that? Well I called my parents to come & try to help the situation, this chick showed no respect to my parents. My mother just had some periodontical (sp? gum surgery), and was home sleeping on pain killers. I had to call her & my dad to help me (FH was still at work)... after she gave in & let me take my possessions & load our cars as mucn as we could. She was like what ever you leave is is mine!
Ok, I didn't go to law school, but I knew legally she couldn't do that . I had called the police, and they said that she can not assume property for my personal possesions, in fact I have to go back tommorow with a police escort..
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After she threatned to change the locks and not allow me to take my belongings , the police dept, suggest that we go back w/ an officer.
I'm so
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I can't believe that this chick is behaving like this.
She's seriously affecting my quality of life, I missed my gtg tonight, that I only talked about for weeks
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, now I have to go back with police, not knowing what kind of situation we're going to be walking in to... And tommorow is our Food tasting at The Met
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... They are holding the date til tommorow, as a courtsey, since someone else did call inquiring about my date... Worse case senerio, is that FH & I will not be able to go, b/c this chick will do somthing and we'll be tied up filling police reports, and making statements & FILs will go alone to make the decision. I know that this is not going to matter in the big scheme of things, but I would really feel cheated out of the experience & excitment of booking where we are going to get married...
Ok so it' s10 to 3:00am, and I'm still trying to organize my belongings that I have here at FH & My's love nest. The Chick packed my stuff for me, weird huh? I guess she called to see if she can have some of my things is b/c she wanted them when she saw them as she packed my stuff
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Well, FH & I have always had a thing for comfort, and ocassionally we'll splurge on higher quality items, like Ralph Lauren Down bed pillows, well since I didn't get to them til right before I signed on, I didn't notice, she switched pillows, she took my pillows out of there cases and put her clumpy piece of crap pillows in my cases.
When I took cloths out of the closet I noticed that 3 dresses were missing, anfd these we're common dresses. These were dresses of special sentimental value, like the one I was wearing the night FH proposed, the one I wore for my birthday, one I wore in a wedding!
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Honestly what kind of person does this? I'm so angry, fustrated, dissapointed and overwhelmed, but it did feel good to vent it even tho it's been the topic of conversation all night.
Please girlds can we set another gtg up soon?
