So done with people

So this morning was my first time dropping FH's son off at the bus stop for this school year. Last year FH's ex came to the bus stop 3x to say hi. Whatever, I don't care. So today the bus pulls up and she comes running across the street making this big scene in front of the other parents kissing him and hugging him all over and making the bus wait while she goes on and on about how happy she was she didn't miss him and how maybe she'll see him this weekend (she has NEVER seen him on one of our weekends) and gushing how handsome he looks and how she missed him so much last night (meanwhile the night before she called FH saying she can't control the son and she can't take it anymore). So by now all the other kids were on the bus, one parent got fed up and left. So now it's time to put him on the bus and she ferries him right past me and puts him on. I just had enough time to tussle his hair and tell him to have a great day. She totally did that on purpose. He always runs to me and gives me hugs and kisses.

Sorry, wanted to vent. FH says don't let it bother me, and I could really care less about her but I hate that she uses her son like that to make a power play. She's so pathetic I swear. Maybe she feels intimidated by me, like she needs to make sure the son knows that she's mommy. I don't know. I've NEVER said anything against her in front of the son. I don't know.

The best thing to do is not let it get to you, that's what she wants. She wants it to bother you so you'll make some kind of scene. Don't let her win

A good friend of mine just recently told me that when you let others see that they're bothering you, they win. So, the best thing you can do is just smile and let it go. That will aggravate her even more.

Sorry you have to start your weekend like this.

No, would never make a scene because i can see her on the phone within 2 seconds calling the cops saying i'm harassing her. If this is the burden I must bear to be with FH, than so be it. I'm above the b*llsh*t. I don't get involved. She's said mean and nasty things about me to FH's son.....I'm a fat pig, I'm white trash......the list goes on and on. To say this in front of your 5 yo son is just so reprehensible. I'm over it, just needed that initial vent, you know? I honestly feel bad for her.

Would LOVE voodoo dolls Barbara!!! That's a really good idea......

Like everyone else said... If she sees she's not bothering you she'll stop.... People HATE it when they're trying to infuriate you and all you do is smile and nod like nothing is bothering you.

She can't help it that she's an idiot. Kids are smart and I'm sure he sees right through her.



You are awesome, Amanda!!

Sorry you had to deal with that today , but obviously you are a big part of his life because he still comes to you and gives you a hug

some people just like to show off in front of others (especially other parents). in this type of situation you just have to remind yourself that you are the better person & don't have the need to be showy in front of others.

odds are he probally was embarrassed by her anyway. (like told other kids that she was just some crazy lady. lol)

Just remember, you the better person!

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Posted by stinenandy2010

Just remember, you the better person!

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cant say this to you enough!!!

Just keep doing what your doing and dont let it show to her that it is ticking you off...People like that are just looking to get a rise out of you, if you dont let it show she will eventually stop...

she is definitely missing a few steps in her staircase. i admire that you're able to keep your cool. brush it off your shoulders and keep being the beautiful person that you are!

Thanks everyone for all of the kind words and support. Gonna do what you all said and just be all smiles. Just ignored her today, but maybe going out of my way will freak her out....or she'll think I'm kissing her a@@ cause she's gotten to me. Oh there is no happy medium She actually texted FH and said 'Didn't look like Amanda was too happy to see me this morning LOL'. So childish! I graduated 15 years ago. thanks again everyone!

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Posted by amandah75

Thanks everyone for all of the kind words and support. Gonna do what you all said and just be all smiles. Just ignored her today, but maybe going out of my way will freak her out....or she'll think I'm kissing her a@@ cause she's gotten to me. Oh there is no happy medium She actually texted FH and said 'Didn't look like Amanda was too happy to see me this morning LOL'. So childish! I graduated 15 years ago. thanks again everyone!

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Eww she has some nerve. You kept your cool and were strong so GO YOU! I probably would have said something to her and caused a scene which wouldnt of been good. You should be really proud of yourself!