so.... dress... is purchased!!!! but.... i showed FMIL...*update*

and she said ;um are those going to be covered (hovering her hand over her boobs)
then she said oh thats nice.... but 'they' will be more in the dress right?

dress was something liek a 10 .. im a 16... i told her yes but she sid it looked too small

so guess FMIL is extatic that i have a wedding dress

uh how annoying...u tried to do a nice thing by showing her ugh.. sorry it didnt go as you wanted!

SOO HAPPY that you got ur dress though!!

oh man thats so annnoying--if you have nothing nice to say then dont say anything all. but CONGRATS on getting your dress!

Congratulations on finding a dress YOU love! All that matters is that you feel good in it, don't let her opinion affect yours!

i'm petrified of having the same experience....FMIL is coming with me for the first fitting & she hasn't seen my dress yet.....

i'm sorry Deb - as long as you are happy - WHO GIVES A CRAP what she thinks??????

i cant wait to show the pictures.. im excited but nervous...

do u get me?> liek not nervous to get married... but that its all becoming real so many emotions at once.


yes i did get teh dress at BR, great place.

adn believe it or not i got pissy at my parents at teh end bc they wanted me to 'pose' and i was liek ummm no...

it was weird, i was sneaking looking at myself in the mirror.. but all the OMG its really happening got to me.

hmmm i told fh and i was with tummy issues all night... this all beging real is putting all this stress on my body...

its ready to get older adn be an adult... 11 months to go!

i also told FH i was upset about the reaction.. he told me dont worry that he will love ANY dress on me...

did you girsl see teh SATC where miranda 'faked her sonogram'

well i FEEL like that now...

everyone was liek do you LOVE YOUR DRESS? did you cry!? are you anxious in it... and im liek
ummm
yeah i liek it alot?@

(i dont wear dresses, i dotn wear dress pants, i dont wear makeup, and o dot wea jewerly... ) ANYTHING that remotly dressy is a wow difference.

but i dont want to look more, and that says alot to me.

i have my dress adn im set.

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx

i cant wait to show the pictures.. im excited but nervous...

do u get me?> liek not nervous to get married... but that its all becoming real so many emotions at once.


yes i did get teh dress at BR, great place.

adn believe it or not i got pissy at my parents at teh end bc they wanted me to 'pose' and i was liek ummm no...

it was weird, i was sneaking looking at myself in the mirror.. but all the OMG its really happening got to me.

hmmm i told fh and i was with tummy issues all night... this all beging real is putting all this stress on my body...

its ready to get older adn be an adult... 11 months to go!

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Oh hon......it's overwhelming - but in a good way i hope??? I believe it that you got pissy - i don't like being told to do this & do that when i'm all nervous with everyone looking at me - ya know???

You already are an adult hon - you're about to become an old married lady though!

If you need to talk to about anything - let me know!!!

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Posted by davenjess

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx

i cant wait to show the pictures.. im excited but nervous...

do u get me?> liek not nervous to get married... but that its all becoming real so many emotions at once.


yes i did get teh dress at BR, great place.

adn believe it or not i got pissy at my parents at teh end bc they wanted me to 'pose' and i was liek ummm no...

it was weird, i was sneaking looking at myself in the mirror.. but all the OMG its really happening got to me.

hmmm i told fh and i was with tummy issues all night... this all beging real is putting all this stress on my body...

its ready to get older adn be an adult... 11 months to go!

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Oh hon......it's overwhelming - but in a good way i hope??? I believe it that you got pissy - i don't like being told to do this & do that when i'm all nervous with everyone looking at me - ya know???

You already are an adult hon - you're about to become an old married lady though!

If you need to talk to about anything - let me know!!!

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yeah its good... no way do i ever have the thought about not gettign married.. its jstu ive never NOT lived home with mom and dad...
FH is still hoem with mom and dad...

i never paid pills...
i cant cook
fh doesnt kno about laundry
we are gettign a house
im graduating in 4 months

its a wHOLD lotta 'adult' change happening ... finally being out in the world alone.... together.. but out of the confort of our parents taking care of us.

we are such babies!!

I don't know what it is with FMILs and boobies, mine reacted the same way

and don't worry about your reaction, when I got my dress, I wasn't emotional or overly-excited at all...I was just like okay it's beautiful...moving on not everyone has the same reaction....so there's nothing wrong with yours, everyone handles things differently!

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Posted by MikeandJess

If it makes you feel any better I saw her smoke crack last week.

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!!#@$#$@ WHO!?

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx

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Posted by davenjess

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx

i cant wait to show the pictures.. im excited but nervous...

do u get me?> liek not nervous to get married... but that its all becoming real so many emotions at once.


yes i did get teh dress at BR, great place.

adn believe it or not i got pissy at my parents at teh end bc they wanted me to 'pose' and i was liek ummm no...

it was weird, i was sneaking looking at myself in the mirror.. but all the OMG its really happening got to me.

hmmm i told fh and i was with tummy issues all night... this all beging real is putting all this stress on my body...

its ready to get older adn be an adult... 11 months to go!

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Oh hon......it's overwhelming - but in a good way i hope??? I believe it that you got pissy - i don't like being told to do this & do that when i'm all nervous with everyone looking at me - ya know???

You already are an adult hon - you're about to become an old married lady though!

If you need to talk to about anything - let me know!!!

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yeah its good... no way do i ever have the thought about not gettign married.. its jstu ive never NOT lived home with mom and dad...
FH is still hoem with mom and dad...

i never paid pills...
i cant cook
fh doesnt kno about laundry
we are gettign a house
im graduating in 4 months

its a wHOLD lotta 'adult' change happening ... finally being out in the world alone.... together.. but out of the confort of our parents taking care of us.

we are such babies!!

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Wow, that's nuts! FH and I are in the same boat (still live at home, in school, etc...) I can definitely relate!

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Posted by WinterBride08

I don't know what it is with FMILs and boobies, mine reacted the same way

and don't worry about your reaction, when I got my dress, I wasn't emotional or overly-excited at all...I was just like okay it's beautiful...moving on not everyone has the same reaction....so there's nothing wrong with yours, everyone handles things differently!

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i had the same thing - okay, it's a dress....like it - next??

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Posted by davenjess

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Posted by WinterBride08

I don't know what it is with FMILs and boobies, mine reacted the same way

and don't worry about your reaction, when I got my dress, I wasn't emotional or overly-excited at all...I was just like okay it's beautiful...moving on not everyone has the same reaction....so there's nothing wrong with yours, everyone handles things differently!

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i had the same thing - okay, it's a dress....like it - next??

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ok .. phew... i was not crying, not anything...

but 2 weeks ago i did say wow!

ehhhh as long as im not alone with the no dress crying reaction