Wow. Our priest told us a while back that FH and I have to write letters to each other explaining why we want to get married. Since I'm about 6 months away, I decided to get cracking on mine. I'm not gonna be able to really give it the attention it deserves in the last 4 months before the wedding since I'll be studying for the bar exam, and I wanted to really get into it.
I just wrote it and I SOBBED during it. When you really have to write down why you love someone, it just reminds you how lucky you are. LOL - either that or I have PMS?
jennandrolo
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id be the same..its def. not pms
bella1028
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that is such a nice idea...our priest did not ask that of us...I almost wish he had though
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that is such a nice idea...our priest did not ask that of us...I almost wish he had though
I can't remember which - but he is either going to read them/portions of them at the ceremony or make us read them/portions of them to each other.
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It's not PMS- I had to actually tell FH in front of the Rabbi why I want to marry him- after the third sentence that I spoke I started to cry!
Even thinking about it I get misty eyed.
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that is such a nice idea...our priest did not ask that of us...I almost wish he had though
I can't remember which - but he is either going to read them/portions of them at the ceremony or make us read them/portions of them to each other.
wow...that will be so nice and different...I am not sure that I have seen that before...i absolutely love the idea...might be a bit emotional, but so nice
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that is such a nice idea...our priest did not ask that of us...I almost wish he had though
I can't remember which - but he is either going to read them/portions of them at the ceremony or make us read them/portions of them to each other.
wow...that will be so nice and different...I am not sure that I have seen that before...i absolutely love the idea...might be a bit emotional, but so nice
I hope the priest reads it instead of me - that way I can concentrate on thinking 'don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry '
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that is such a nice idea...our priest did not ask that of us...I almost wish he had though
I can't remember which - but he is either going to read them/portions of them at the ceremony or make us read them/portions of them to each other.
wow...that will be so nice and different...I am not sure that I have seen that before...i absolutely love the idea...might be a bit emotional, but so nice
I hope the priest reads it instead of me - that way I can concentrate on thinking 'don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry '
lol...yeah i think i might suggest that if i were you...it may be difficult to stay composed
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Awwwwwwwww I wish we were doing that!
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No it's the bar exam!!!! I won't even tell you the things I did when I was studying for it!!!!!!! (I can't I blocked them all out anyway)
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No it's the bar exam!!!! I won't even tell you the things I did when I was studying for it!!!!!!! (I can't I blocked them all out anyway)
LOL I knowwwwwwwww. I am SO SO SO not looking forward to it. I'm sure you will see many posts from me over the summer saying I am going out of my mind!
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it's not PMS, it's the wedding. I hardly ever cried because of sappy things before I got engaged and now I am a complete emotional mess at all times. It pisses me off!
JUSTICE
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I give you a lot of credit planning a wedding and the bar. You might need meds>>>> Only kidding just focus and make sure once a week you spend quality time with you soon to be. One of the hings I am saying in my vows is thanks for sticking by me during the bar exam. LOL
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Just a little advice. At the end of both bar reviews-barbri and pieper they give predicitons to what the essays will be on. Between the two they usually get most of the areas>>>> Be kind to your body. Get massages. Drink a glass of wine and have faith in yourself.
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Just a little advice. At the end of both bar reviews-barbri and pieper they give predicitons to what the essays will be on. Between the two they usually get most of the areas>>>> Be kind to your body. Get massages. Drink a glass of wine and have faith in yourself.
I don't know when you took the bar, but I have a few friends who took it this past July that were PISSED about the essay topic predictions. I guess some of them were right, but BarBri had said they didn't really need to study commercial papers and then there ended up being a whole essay about it! How frustrating - luckily they all passed anyhow.
I definitely plan on being good to myself. I also hope to start running - I think that would help burn off a lot of stress!!
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Aww that is so sweet! You should definitely read them at the ceremony. I told FH I want to read our own vows. I was going through old cards and stuff and I found our cards from each other from our 1 year anniversary and I thought it would be cute to read them to each other.
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I would be the same way. I never thought I would meet a man that is as great as he is. I am so lucky.... I get emotional all the time. I am a cry baby.
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We actually had to do that as well for pre-cana. They blessed the letters for us as well. We are going to save them for the honeymoon and read them then! It was def. emotional though! But in a good way
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Exercise is key. It is so funny today people where asking me about the wedding planning and I said it was similar to studying for the bar. LOL.
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That is a wonderful idea and so sentimental as well! I would be crying too