So far everything about my wedding planning have been messed up!!!

So far everything about my wedding planning have been messed up!!!

I know people say it will all work out, but do some people event goes smoothly

For starters

1. I am not crazy about my dress anymore.

2. I am still waiting for any bm/mh to call me and tell me there dress came in.

3. My dear friend planned my bridal shower all by herself and she is not in the wedding. (VERY SWEET OF HER)...............

Then, I get a call from my aunt asking my mom, so 'what do I want as a gift' I told my mom to tell her I am registred at 2 stores. Then, I asked my mom, was the bridal shower invitations clear enough for people to know where to go purchase gifts. She could not answer me. I am sitting here thinking why did I spend so many hours in the department stores adding items to my wish list for gifts. Mom, is too scared to reveal the surprise, I know..I won't knock her for that.

4. On the wedding invitations it says the ceremony starts at 3 30. When the priest is marrying us at 3pm. I will faint if the priest tells us no....He can't push the time back.

5. Day by day....I am so frustrated with my moh...all day long she wants to talk about herself. If she talks about my wedding, (which only happens on a blue moon)........she makes sure her bf is there to listen....since she wants him to propose so bad.

6. I have been so out of order lately...just waiting and wondering what else can go wrong.

Thanks for listening guys.....

Re: So far everything about my wedding planning have been messed up!!!

I am sorry that this is all happening. It will all work out.
I can related to you about your dress, I feel the same. My friends tell me I am nuts to feel badly about my dress.
Maybe just take a day off from planning this and try to relax and do something you really enjoy without thinking about all this stuff.

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The wedding invitation is important, but the other stuff - not that it's NOT important, but try to let it go, you can't control it. I'm just sorry that the people around you aren't more 'together' and supportive of your wedding.

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So sorry sweetie! Would you consider dropping your MOH, or adding the sweet girl who did your shower to your bridal party at this late date? Maybe?

Hopefully you'll be able to push the time up for the ceremony - if not, you can send out a correction postcard - it's not the end of the world. Everything else will work itself out - people will get you nice things, and most people will figure out the Resigtry thing.

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Don't worry about it.....Your wedding day is gonna be amazing and a wonderful day. Why? Because we are getting married on the the same day! J/K this will work out. Try to work out the things you have control over and the things you don't just pray that they will work themselves out.

Just think about Sun Aug 1, when we are chillin on the cruise sipping an Apple Martini

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Don't worry everything will work out. Everyone goes through things like this during the planning. With me, the wrong dress came in and they had to order another one (four months before the wedding!) but it's here and it's what I ordered. My BM STILL didn't receive their dresses (ordered from Pearl's Place, who said they would be here by May 1). We are on our third BM at the hall, and a new management company just bought them. We have a lot of guests that we thought were coming and now cannot, so we may not meet our minimum. At this point, I just try not to get aggravated and try not to worry. No matter what else happens, I am marrying the man I love and nothing can ruin that.

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Try not to let it all get to you. Believe me I know that it is easier said than done but every bride has told me that they wish they hadn't sweated all the small stuff because in the end it didn't matter. They got to marry the man they love and in the end that is the most important thing.

Re: So far everything about my wedding planning have been messed up!!!--UPDATE!!!!

Went to the bridal store my mom, purchased her dress from and could not resist the temptation to try a dress on...that I had my eye on the last time I was there, and you guess it. I fell in love with it. It is a eve milady...White silk gown. But, of course...If I purchase it, I will be really tight with

So, I am not sure if I want to sacrifice. The manager told me he would sell me the dress right off the rack. I was so shocked because sometimes her gowns can take 6 months to come in. I am going to sleep on it tonight......

Hey date mate.!!!!!!!!!..........I can't wait for Aug.1st.....(make that a tripple apple martini)

I do love the idea to insert a correctional card with the invitations....thanks!!!

Re: So far everything about my wedding planning have been messed up!!!

can I see a pic of your dress...

I am sure it is beautiful...

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It is gorgeous...

All the store told me is that it is a new stlye........eve milady silk gown. I don't have a pic of it yet. I am going to search for it.

My nerves..have been messing with me all day.

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I totally u/s...... but just take things one step at a time... I think you should call your priest up about the time... I think once you get that settled you will feel a lot better.....


more hugs.....

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AWWWW...everything WILL work out you'll see!!!!!