so FH refers to me as.....

Original post by Alyssa79

Jul 24, 2009 01:54 PM

the boss now. i don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing haha.

just curious to see who wears the pants in your relationships?

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Jul 24, 2009 05:21 PM

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Justin tried asserting himself --- but he's much happier letting me have my way. Who am I to argue!

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Jul 24, 2009 05:24 PM

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Posted by Tori2082

When it comes to wedding planning - i definitley do, but we're pretty much even when it comes to everything else. We always consult each other about the big things.

ITA

StaceYums81 Posted: Jul 24, 2009 05:26 PM

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I would say we're pretty equal...

MrsCM Posted: Jul 24, 2009 05:59 PM

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FH calls me 'the boss' sometimes and I don't like it. I think I wear the pants when it comes to some things and he wears them when it comes to others. All things considered though, I probably am the boss.

Future Mrs H Posted: Jul 24, 2009 07:05 PM

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Its totally 50/50 with us. We talk about and discuss everything.

CloudNine Posted: Jul 24, 2009 08:15 PM

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we like to keep it even...i dont like when one partner holds more power over the other...everything is a compromise.

there are certain aspects that we do rely on the other to take more control over but its an agreed upon thing

scatteredx12 Posted: Jul 25, 2009 01:28 PM

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'Yes dear' and 'whatever you want' are the only responses I get...lol.

deanna225 Posted: Jul 25, 2009 02:55 PM

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Posted by Soon2bShea

Posted by Lsorrent

Posted by soontobecruz

me... FH isn't sub-serviant but truth is I do, or nothing would get done

Same here. FH's response to mostly everything is 'Yes, Dear.......'

Same here

same here but he says yes darling.

SuzanneK Posted: Jul 26, 2009 10:44 AM

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I am def the boss I call the shots and he tells everyone I just do as Im told. If I left it up to him we would get nothing done.

paprika023 Posted: Jul 26, 2009 11:02 AM

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Posted by Soon2bShea

Posted by Lsorrent

Posted by soontobecruz

me... FH isn't sub-serviant but truth is I do, or nothing would get done

Same here. FH's response to mostly everything is 'Yes, Dear.......'

Same here