So frusterated....

I find out tonight that some of my bridesmaids are complaining about paying $30 toward the limo for my b-party. Are you kidding me?

Seriously? $30. I hope I remember this when they get married.

Urgh..I really feel like calling them all and straight up asking what the problem is..is this a bad idea?

that's so annoying! people are so tacky..like ***..$30..really?? imo, don't agree to be in the bridal party if you don't wanna pay for all the things it entails.

i wish when shyt like that went on people would NOT tell the bride-to-be!! i had so much stupid shyt happen that i could not control and it would annoy the hell out of me.

def keep a mental note of all the bs, even if you just say 'oh remember when I was getting married'... when it's someone else's wedding all of a sudden they sing a different tune.

wow! 30 bucks is so reasonable!

all this aggrevation they give to you for $30 what did they think was going to happen for the party? that you were going to stay home? you pay that much on a damn train ticket to the city and a cab..... eww thats ridic

my sister was a very big pain throughout the whole process for me. Not so much in the way of money bc she was very generous in everything she and everyone did for me, but she just acted like my entire wedding was a huge inconvenience to her. 'is it going to be really late? How long is the ceremony? Do I have to come in the limo? it's just a long time away from my kids... I'm not sure if we'll stay the whole time... I guess we'll have to find something to do for lunch...' JUST EVERYTHING...... Come to think of it, a lot of my BMs were really difficult when it came to planning or their dress alterations or whatever....

I got to the point where I finally kept telling myself... 'I only need ME, FH, THE PRIEST, AND ONE WITNESS in order to get married. EVERYONE ELSE CAN DO WHATEVER THE HLEL THEY WANT.... and if they are there and dressed properly and in pictures and everything, great. it's just gravy though' (i even had to tell my MIL this... in a much nicer way of course)

It ended up being fine... Just let them b!tch and moan... It might make things easier for them. Who knows why people do the things they do...