so frustrated

Anna614 Posted: Feb 12, 2012 07:52 PM

so frustrated

I'm so annoyed with my fiancé not wanting to be involved with anything for this wedding. It's like pulling teeth. I think I'm going to take a break from wedding planning because I'm tired of doing it alone.

futuremorasse Posted: Feb 12, 2012 08:31 PM

Re: so frustrated

I felt like that too in the beginning. Now I mention one thing and he wont shut up about it for a week and is driving me crazy!! Hopefully he will come around

soon2beMrsHenry92912 Posted: Feb 13, 2012 12:09 AM

Re: so frustrated

Posted by Anna614

I'm so annoyed with my fiancé not wanting to be involved with anything for this wedding. It's like pulling teeth. I think I'm going to take a break from wedding planning because I'm tired of doing it alone.

Do you have super long to-do list? My FH was like this, but once I showed him the list and he realized how much time we had left in planning, he started to help a lot more. He wasn't really involved in picking flowers, or the theme, but he has been really involved with picking DJ, limos, and I know he is really excited for the cake tasting. If you give him a visual about what needs to be done, maybe that will help.

kattus Posted: Feb 13, 2012 06:20 AM

Re: so frustrated

Posted by Anna614

I'm so annoyed with my fiancé not wanting to be involved with anything for this wedding. It's like pulling teeth. I think I'm going to take a break from wedding planning because I'm tired of doing it alone.

Am I the only one whose FH took charge?

sjr385 Posted: Feb 13, 2012 07:43 AM

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jojo07135 Posted: Feb 13, 2012 09:50 AM

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I felt like that too.. He did not involve himself in anything.. Once he saw the list of to do's and then he saw how it was coming together he is really slowly getting involved. If you need to vent fm me.. I was going through that too and was ready to lose my mind!

pixietina Posted: Feb 13, 2012 10:54 AM

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There were times when I felt like that and would fight about it. Guys are just not that into weddings. FH tells me to pick what I want so I do and just inform him of everything I am doing.

Karrie D Posted: Feb 13, 2012 11:20 AM

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My husband has been involved and it makes things very difficult! I wish he wasn't involved. All I want is for him to show up at the church the day of!

Evan820 Posted: Feb 14, 2012 01:02 PM

Re: so frustrated

Posted by futuremorasse

I felt like that too in the beginning. Now I mention one thing and he wont shut up about it for a week and is driving me crazy!! Hopefully he will come around

THIS! he was not interested at all in the beginning. He and i have very different taste, so maybe that was a good thing. Now that we are coming down to the wire he sends me 'to do' lists almost every day and wants constant updates! just give him some time, he will prolly come around when you get a little closer to your date

JNB818 Posted: Feb 14, 2012 06:17 PM

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Posted by pixietina

There were times when I felt like that and would fight about it. Guys are just not that into weddings. FH tells me to pick what I want so I do and just inform him of everything I am doing.

This!!!