so frustrated - I think I'm going to cry

StaceYums81 Posted: Feb 08, 2010 08:58 PM

so frustrated - I think I'm going to cry

FH's sister all of a sudden wanter her husband to come - the one who was supposed to be best man but said he couldn't come due to some kind of training excersise. where we had to tell everyone the best man pulled out and ask my BROTHER to step in as best man. I have no room for him at the table he is going to have to sit w/strangers and not his own family- FH dad and brothers got tuxes and are definitely coming - we have to add them to the cermony last minute (weren't even sure if they were going to come) and we can't get in contact with his dad cause he doesn't have a phone. People keep not wanting to come - then changing their minds

SummerBride10 Posted: Feb 08, 2010 09:00 PM

Re: so frustrated - I think I'm going to cry

You're SOOOOO close to your wedding day, I wouldn't even let this stress you out- its not worth it. Sit him with strangrs- too bad for him/

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Feb 08, 2010 09:01 PM

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Posted by SummerBride10

You're SOOOOO close to your wedding day, I wouldn't even let this stress you out- its not worth it. Sit him with strangrs- too bad for him/

i agree, dont let this get you down

grrulz Posted: Feb 08, 2010 09:01 PM

Re: so frustrated - I think I'm going to cry

don't stress out please its almost here!! its his fault!!! sit him with strangers too bad for him

HurricaneGirl Posted: Feb 08, 2010 09:03 PM

Re: so frustrated - I think I'm going to cry

I totally agree! If he's going to tell you this late in the game, what can they expect you to do?

StaceYums81 Posted: Feb 08, 2010 09:08 PM

Re: so frustrated - I think I'm going to cry

I don't know if i can not seat a man with his own children

I emailed the banquet manager to see if i could squeeze 11 at a table but now they will all be squished and it will be his fault and the other 2 azzholes at that table who replied late...

Jenna_and_John Posted: Feb 08, 2010 09:27 PM

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Posted by grrulz

don't stress out please its almost here!! its his fault!!! sit him with strangers too bad for him

ITA...

joctorre Posted: Feb 08, 2010 09:35 PM

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I'm sorry. That's really frustrating. What is with people doing this to you!!!????

DOn't worry about him. Who cares where he sits? YOU have a seat, right? That's all you need this late in the game. Sorry 'Best' man!!!

flibbertigibbet Posted: Feb 08, 2010 09:38 PM

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'you snooze you lose' kwim?

hopefully people wont be in their seats long anyways... they'll be out on the dance floor!!!

Nina1010 Posted: Feb 08, 2010 10:02 PM

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You snooze you lose.

Seriously....it shouldn't be a big deal...venues deal with this all the time. Let them worry for you. So many times I've attended a wedding where somoene showed up and had originally declined. The place quickly set up a setting without skipping a beat.
ET fix my sp issues.

angelscri Posted: Feb 08, 2010 11:39 PM

Re: so frustrated - I think I'm going to cry

Posted by SummerBride10

You're SOOOOO close to your wedding day, I wouldn't even let this stress you out- its not worth it. Sit him with strangrs- too bad for him/

I agree, don't let his foolishness ruin your big day, sit him with strangers and enjoy your wedding day.