So Fustrated I Need to Vent A Bit

DGoldfarb0776 Posted: Mar 03, 2008 04:43 PM

So Fustrated I Need to Vent A Bit

Most of you know that about three weeks ago my former MOH had to go back to work on the day of my wedding- she gets the schedule today and of all things she starts Monday morning instead of the original Sunday!!
After going through all the aggrivation that she had to go through go figure it's too late for her to be in the bridal party
She's feeling ticked off about it but the good news is that she's going to be at the wedding- I guess I can just be happy about that atm.

Last night my aunt (who is constantly beligerent torwards me) calls to ask when the check out time for the hotel is (she's leaving to go home after the wedding but coming back to the hotel for her things and to check out). I told her that she needs to call the hotel about that and see what can be arranged- she tells me that I needed to go and do that for her.. I was like 'wth'.
She also mentions to me that she's having dinner Saturday night at the hotel with a few of my family members that are staying there- I said 'would you like for me to join you'.. she goes 'I thought you'd be busy with your in-laws'... I am beginning to think that she's jealous of me and my great relationship with my in-laws.

I really can't wait for this to be all over and I'm on a plane headed to St. Lucia with FH... then I'll be better

mathteach Posted: Mar 03, 2008 04:45 PM

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Sorry Danielle. Just remember: less than a week.

Serenity now, serenity now!

SB7308 Posted: Mar 03, 2008 04:52 PM

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Breath... Breath.... Breath

Just think is very close!!!

DGoldfarb0776 Posted: Mar 03, 2008 04:55 PM

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Posted by mathteach

Sorry Danielle. Just remember: less than a week.

Serenity now, serenity now!

I think since it's so close it makes dealing with it better than it be say two weeks more.

:chants 'serenity now, serenity now':

GinaBambina08 Posted: Mar 03, 2008 05:11 PM

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Oh boy, that's rough...but at least your friend will be there, but it's really a shame that she can't be your MOH...isn't there anything that could be done? Is the dress the issue because maybe she could get an off the rack dress that goes with your bm dresses? She's the MOH so it's okay if she stands out anyway, right? It just bothers me because I would hate it if my best friend couldn't be my MOH...

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 03, 2008 05:20 PM

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So happy to hear your MOH can be at your wedding!

ant n tilde Posted: Mar 03, 2008 07:53 PM

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i promise you that once your wedding day comes all of this stuff wont even be on your mind!!!

DGoldfarb0776 Posted: Mar 03, 2008 07:58 PM

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Posted by WinterBride08

Oh boy, that's rough...but at least your friend will be there, but it's really a shame that she can't be your MOH...isn't there anything that could be done? Is the dress the issue because maybe she could get an off the rack dress that goes with your bm dresses? She's the MOH so it's okay if she stands out anyway, right? It just bothers me because I would hate it if my best friend couldn't be my MOH...

With a bit less than 5 days to go even if she bought the dress off the rack she'd still need alterations and I doubt that it would be done in time- also I would never put her through that either at this point. Also I can't make any more changes to my flowers because it's less than two weeks prior to the wedding.

I'm just happy that she'll be there as a guest and not have to leave after the ceremony as I originally thought.

I hope she's not mad that I went and cancelled a bouquet since she wasnt' going to be in the wedding and promoted one of my other friends to be MoH instead.