so half of my stuff is back home

life is upside down at the moment, but the stress is slowly going away

and FMIL is trying everything she can to keep FH in her home--- even hysterical crying that he doesnt have to leave


whattt did i do to deserve this woman
please someone tel meee

instead- shes crying to him that im taking him away from her


shes just constantly starting fights
she called the other night starting ********- and thought she hung up the phone

she continued to tell FFIL that she doesnt understand what he sees in me and no one even f****** likes me and that im taking him away from her and he doesnt even see it

can you imagine???
ive never met a woman so fake to my face and that talks so much behind my back, alll because she cant let go

i dont get it-- your sons happy- were getting married in 221 days ( whoooo that went fast)---whta did u think was going to happen???

Oh man!!!!! I'm sorry you have to deal with that!! my FMIL doesn't like me either... i stole her son too lol. She has asked us many times to move in with her and I will not!! I refuse!! I'm sure once you guys are out, it will settle down a little bit. She's obviously having a hard time letting go. FH and I have 2 kids together and all FMIL does is complain she never sees them but REFUSES to come to our house?!?!? Um, how does this make sense. Its a lot easier for her to come to us then for us to load up the 2 kids to go to her house, which is not up to my standards and I don't like my kids playing there, but we go all the time anyway. In dealing with this woman for almost 5 years now, I have learned that no matter what craziness she throws our way, as long as we are on the same page with it, its all ok in the end! she's making it harder on herself!

edited for spelling!

I'm so sorry you're going through this babe

She seems like someone who will never think anyone is good enough for her 'baby boy'. As long as you can FH are happy that is all that should matter.

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Posted by FutureJOC

I'm so sorry you're going through this babe

She seems like someone who will never think anyone is good enough for her 'baby boy'. As long as you can FH are happy that is all that should matter.

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yea--- im jus so sick of fighting with FH over her- shes been trying to get rid of me since the day she saw we were serious

im mean shes certifyable--- you girls have no idea what ive put up with

last summer b4 we got engaged - she cornered me getitng out of my car and was like my sons not happy, leave him alone, break up with him
and im like ur crazy lady, ur have to let goo


shes never gunna go away girls
everrr
thank gd i love FH haha
bc seriously--- who the hll wnts to deal with this??
who deserves this


i just cant take itttttttttttttttttttttttttttt

wow! that's horrible. I'm so sorry for you.

If it's any consolation, my ex MIL slept in his bed for 6 months after we got married.

yeah.

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Posted by Moonmist09

what does FH say about all of this? b/c if he sees that she is crazy and making no sense and is on your side, then this is more livable, but if he sides with her...yikes!

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no he sees it- i mean obv. he left with me-- but its hard, ya know, i mean its his mother, i get it
but shes crazy
thats not my fault lol

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Posted by allornil

wow! that's horrible. I'm so sorry for you.

If it's any consolation, my ex MIL slept in his bed for 6 months after we got married.

yeah.

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haha yea thatll b her!!
really- gd help me--- if she was my mother- id b in jail

isnt this terrible of me to say
i feel bad- and then i realize i just cant feel bad

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Posted by allornil

wow! that's horrible. I'm so sorry for you.

If it's any consolation, my ex MIL slept in his bed for 6 months after we got married.

yeah.

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OMG

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Posted by amandamichael

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Posted by allornil

wow! that's horrible. I'm so sorry for you.

If it's any consolation, my ex MIL slept in his bed for 6 months after we got married.

yeah.

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haha yea thatll b her!!
really- gd help me--- if she was my mother- id b in jail

isnt this terrible of me to say
i feel bad- and then i realize i just cant feel bad

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don't feel bad seriously. I lucked out w my FMIL. she tells me I;m her daughter all the time and takes my side over FH's lol.

But I dealt w a wacko MIL before. I learned to just live my life. She will chill out eventually a bit, but she's mot gonna change. At least you know what you;re dealing with.

did you see that thread in 2010 a while back where the MIL calls the husbands cell and the bride picked up. This is AFTER the wedding. She pauses and says oh you scared me. I didn't realize you were living there.

W T F? they;'re MARRIED? LOL

cracked me up.

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Posted by amandamichael

instead- shes crying to him that im taking him away from her


shes just constantly starting fights
she called the other night starting ********- and thought she hung up the phone

she continued to tell FFIL that she doesnt understand what he sees in me and no one even f****** likes me and that im taking him away from her and he doesnt even see it

can you imagine???
ive never met a woman so fake to my face and that talks so much behind my back, alll because she cant let go

i dont get it-- your sons happy- were getting married in 221 days ( whoooo that went fast)---whta did u think was going to happen???

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FMIL are known to be evil/crazy/out of control for a reason!! You can only let it roll off your back for so long.

btw I have one suggestion for her... XANAX!

lol really it works for my FMIL. hahaha.

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Posted by leighlo1226

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Posted by amandamichael

instead- shes crying to him that im taking him away from her


shes just constantly starting fights
she called the other night starting ********- and thought she hung up the phone

she continued to tell FFIL that she doesnt understand what he sees in me and no one even f****** likes me and that im taking him away from her and he doesnt even see it

can you imagine???
ive never met a woman so fake to my face and that talks so much behind my back, alll because she cant let go

i dont get it-- your sons happy- were getting married in 221 days ( whoooo that went fast)---whta did u think was going to happen???

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FMIL are known to be evil/crazy/out of control for a reason!! You can only let it roll off your back for so long.

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this ones crazier than crazy

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Posted by amandamichael

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Posted by leighlo1226

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Posted by amandamichael

instead- shes crying to him that im taking him away from her


shes just constantly starting fights
she called the other night starting ********- and thought she hung up the phone

she continued to tell FFIL that she doesnt understand what he sees in me and no one even f****** likes me and that im taking him away from her and he doesnt even see it

can you imagine???
ive never met a woman so fake to my face and that talks so much behind my back, alll because she cant let go

i dont get it-- your sons happy- were getting married in 221 days ( whoooo that went fast)---whta did u think was going to happen???

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FMIL are known to be evil/crazy/out of control for a reason!! You can only let it roll off your back for so long.

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this ones crazier than crazy

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i'm telling you, slip the xanax into her koolaid! lol

btw my ex MIL was so crazy that my ex husband's current wife is divorcing him bc she hates his family so much. dude, that's bad!

Plus he prob dresses up as wolverine and runs around the house, but that's another issue.

i'm sorry that you're dealing with this. i dealt with a similar situation when my fiance moved out of his mother's house. she started causing unnecessary fights with me over the stupidest stuff. my relationship with my fiance's mother is perfect now, but i honestly think it's the realization that their little boys are growing up and have another woman in their life. if it doesn't get better, i think you should have your fiance talk to her. if he agrees with you, then he needs to tell her that he's happy and she needs to back off. if he doesn't stand up to her, i think it's only going to cause problems in your relationship later on. i hope everything works out