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So, how do I get rid of a stalker?

AudioLoveStory Posted:

So, how do I get rid of a stalker?

Besides changing my name. Ugh.


So weird. This guy from back in college has been stalking me for 10 years. Whatever email, phone number, social media site I use, he finds me. It seems he knows I'm engaged because he created 2 profiles on facebook and is sending all sorts of weird messages from his 'fiancee' telling me to 'back off you tramp' 'he's mine, we're getting married' etc. Now I'm getting emails from fake fiancee.

I never even dated this guy! He was a classmate. Geez!
mybabylovesmoi Posted:

Re: So, how do I get rid of a stalker?

wow, that is so weird and creepy because you never even dated!!

I had an ex bf stalk me for about 3 years after we broke up. He also found me in a new apartment, constantly calling my friends to harass them, sending pleading creepy emails etc.

The only thing that worked was ignore him completely. I tried to reason with him in the beginning. I tried threatening him. Finally I told him off and told him I would NEVER, EVER acknowlege him again.

He would pop up randomly after that but I never responded to letters, emails, anything he did to provoke me and finally he just stopped. I don't know if he found someone else and moved on or what but I am SOOOO happy he is out of my life!!!!

Have you ever asked him what his problem is???? So weird that he was a CLASSMATE!
AudioLoveStory Posted:

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Nope. Haven't responded to a single request for the past 10 years. Ignoring him doesn't seem to work.

allornil Posted:

Re: So, how do I get rid of a stalker?

Call the police and ask what to do.
Contact fb and have him deleted.
fdnybride163 Posted:

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oh goodness just the last thing you need right?! thats nuts that he is creating fake profiles, you need to ignore and just try to laugh it off. the less you feed into it the less pleasure he will get. No response will hopefully make him realize that he is getting nowhere w you and you are not part of his life

Soapgirl4ever Posted:

Re: So, how do I get rid of a stalker?


Posted by fdnybride163

oh goodness just the last thing you need right?! thats nuts that he is creating fake profiles, you need to ignore and just try to laugh it off. the less you feed into it the less pleasure he will get. No response will hopefully make him realize that he is getting nowhere w you and you are not part of his life



i totally agree .. weirddd
ImgonnabeMrsC Posted:

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Change your fb profile settings so noone can find you! That is so creepy!

Im getting Married Posted:

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Posted by ImgonnabeMrsC

Change your fb profile settings so noone can find you! That is so creepy!



I agree a couple of my friends are on there like that
AudioLoveStory Posted:

Re: So, how do I get rid of a stalker?

Well, I haven't heard anything since.

I wish I could be anonymous online, but my online presence is a big part of my job. (I'm a voice actress.) Unfortunately, facebook is a big part of my marketing. Potential clients have to be able to find me.

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