so hurt and angry

Ok as ive said it in the past, I have some really ****** fuked up friends. Really..
As some of you know... on Saturday I got my wisdom teeth pulled.. only 1 ,.. 1 friend out of ummm I dunno how many texted me, to see how I was doing... when I wrote something on facebook a few commented... and no one else called and two others texted a day later... my own best friend says 'oh I heard about your bloated face, from so and so, how are you feeling' just a few minutes ago.. um,... SO i WROTE BACK TO HER 'nice of you to remember, but thanksss, did you just find remember?' so she writes 'I remember you told me last week you were going to take it out, but I forgot so I said ok well just know what a ****** feeling it is how forgetful people can be and she writes to me 'ok dont worry, people have their own shyt and dont always remember things like your teeth, i hope they gave you good drugs. feel better.' I was kind of confused so I wrote back to her saying no its not just about my tetth but little things that matter and I guess I expect too much out of people, and nice of you to sound like a bich esp since I was telling you what a ****** feeling it was... like seriously?!?! wth is wrong with people.. I seriously want to tell half my bridesmaids, get out get outttttt of the bridal party seriously i canttttttt

That really s u c k s .....BMs are supposed to be there to help and not give you more stress, so I understand how you must feel. Hang in there, I got surgery on my gums last month and I know how it feels to have people act that way when you are in freaking pain!

ahhhh.. get used to it. people SSSSSSSSSSSUUCKKK

dont get spoiled by the wonderful LIW cult. we focus sooo much on eachother on here... and sometimes i find myself saying.. *** people i dont even KNOW or met a few times care sooooooo much and remember shyt about my life, yet my BFFS that ive known FOREVER dont even say HELLO anymore.

I totally understand how you feel. You prob are the type of person who would ask how people are doing-they're obviously not. It s ucks but you have to understand that everyone's not like you. I use to visit my friends after surgery-but no one came to see me-it hurts!
Sorry you had to go through that!

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Posted by grkbarbie

ahhhh.. get used to it. people SSSSSSSSSSSUUCKKK

dont get spoiled by the wonderful LIW cult. we focus sooo much on eachother on here... and sometimes i find myself saying.. *** people i dont even KNOW or met a few times care sooooooo much and remember shyt about my life, yet my BFFS that ive known FOREVER dont even say HELLO anymore.

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couldnt have said it better myself, sad but true

I'm sorry sweetie, that stinks. Some people just don't think about others and while it's true that everyone is busy and has their own lives, taking a minute to call is not too much to ask.

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Posted by grkbarbie

ahhhh.. get used to it. people SSSSSSSSSSSUUCKKK

dont get spoiled by the wonderful LIW cult. we focus sooo much on eachother on here... and sometimes i find myself saying.. *** people i dont even KNOW or met a few times care sooooooo much and remember shyt about my life, yet my BFFS that ive known FOREVER dont even say HELLO anymore.

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ITA!!!! I'm so sorry!!

I am sorry hun!
This post is so very true and it's unfortunate that people start to behave this way.
I totally agree with Barbara...People do su*k and Everyone on here ROCKS!
Feel Better!!

im sorry!!

just know what we all care about you here - others tend to SUK!!! People can be inconsiderate and rude and because we tend to go out of our way for others, we expect the same in return and feel let down when it is not reciprocated....

we are here for you!

ITA sorry but unfortunately ppl can be very inconsiderate and sometimes it will be the ppl who are the closest to you.

I am going through this right now and I am in my 40's..Shyt does not change when you get older, sorry to say...

I feel like people just get wrapped up in their lives and problems...

I just found my post... thank you ladies for the kind words....I swear... I have 10 bridesmaids and I want to have 3-4 taken out.. bc they have not even called or texted ONCE to see how im doing... ONCE... yet I will read their facebook 'partying this weekend, drinking this weekend, etc..' like seriously?!? UGH... I shouldve picked my bridal party wisely... now I regret it so much, 2 of them who are not involved are my cousins! and 1 is one of my bff, well sort of bff... .... but thank you ladies so much... <3

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Posted by grkbarbie

ahhhh.. get used to it. people SSSSSSSSSSSUUCKKK

dont get spoiled by the wonderful LIW cult. we focus sooo much on eachother on here... and sometimes i find myself saying.. *** people i dont even KNOW or met a few times care sooooooo much and remember shyt about my life, yet my BFFS that ive known FOREVER dont even say HELLO anymore.

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Isn't this the truth! I feel like it happens almost over night too.

I am so sorry...

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Posted by Nina1010

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Posted by grkbarbie

ahhhh.. get used to it. people SSSSSSSSSSSUUCKKK

dont get spoiled by the wonderful LIW cult. we focus sooo much on eachother on here... and sometimes i find myself saying.. *** people i dont even KNOW or met a few times care sooooooo much and remember shyt about my life, yet my BFFS that ive known FOREVER dont even say HELLO anymore.

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Isn't this the truth! I feel like it happens almost over night too.

I am so sorry...

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This is so true! I've been feeling the same way as well. Big hugs and hang in there!!!

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Posted by grkbarbie

ahhhh.. get used to it. people SSSSSSSSSSSUUCKKK

dont get spoiled by the wonderful LIW cult. we focus sooo much on eachother on here... and sometimes i find myself saying.. *** people i dont even KNOW or met a few times care sooooooo much and remember shyt about my life, yet my BFFS that ive known FOREVER dont even say HELLO anymore.

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SOOOO TRUE

I told all the Ladies who havent ordered their dress yet that the store phoned me and notified me the dress was discontinued...so now thier out of my bridal party, Its sad bcuz I lied but I didnt need their dead weight and negative A$$' around anymore

Barb couldn't have said it better....people **** and then have the nerve to act like they never did anything wrong...

i'm sorry hun, so many people are so selfish